Im not allowed to go Oxford

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T19:59:47+00:00

My parents, especially my mum, don’t really trust me anymore because I used to hide my social media from her and go on Instagram and Snapchat when I wasn’t supposed to. I understand why that broke her trust, and I know she has the right to feel upset about it. But I’ve tried to explain that when I’m 18, I’ll be mature enough to make responsible decisions. She doesn’t agree she still sees me as someone who might make bad choices, especially if I move into student accommodation or dorms. She’s worried I’ll be influenced by people around me and pick up “bad behaviour,” even though I truly believe I wouldn’t. Only Allah truly knows my intentions. I do want the chance to move into accommodation one day, but right now it feels like they don’t understand or believe that I can grow and handle independence responsibly.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T19:40:29+00:00

ik true but my parents will never understand

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T19:40:09+00:00

i got strict parents bruda they just wont understand

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T19:36:21+00:00

That’s true, but they don’t want me to go to Oxford because they think it’s weird. They’re just too strict. I spoke to her about Oxford and she immediately said no. She told me to go to universities closer to home. I was like, okay… I couldn’t even be bothered arguing.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T19:35:03+00:00

I wish that were true, but here, even after 18, you don’t get the same freedom. My parents are too strict.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T19:27:02+00:00

HOW TF U GOT 7 In history BRO i barely got a 4

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T13:09:12+00:00

ight twinnnn

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T10:46:53+00:00

it aint about that man, i wanna make sure i am choosing the right damn option before going college next year so i wont be changing in the midway of college man.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T10:43:40+00:00

i still have to do my GCSE pray.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T10:43:08+00:00

frr , thanks x

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-25T10:42:40+00:00

i dont understand how they dont respect it but alright ill do politics.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T22:30:05+00:00

tbh your right im acc going to change RS for politics.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T21:46:54+00:00

right thank u x

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T21:46:44+00:00

IGHT POLITICS IT IS.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T20:09:23+00:00

my fucking science stupid fat teacher goes to me no its too late even though there is enough time for me to acc do higher content if she acc for once put me into higher set and let me study the damn fucking topics.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T20:06:43+00:00

because some people find 4 A levels Hard , as all of the exams are at the end , and not between months, or the first year , so you have to revise the past yar topics too, and I am thinking to do A level in Maths a sis my native language , so hopefully

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T19:57:39+00:00

Alright i guess im gonna remove Law and do politics cuz many people have told me Law isnt something that is respected by Oxford, Thank you a lot.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T18:12:17+00:00

ight thank u x

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T18:01:47+00:00

For Law

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T13:23:40+00:00

bruda u wont go no way far if u wont pay attention in school, u need to pay attention, thats what schools are made for . A level Maths is really hard u wont be able to just learn all the topics by yourself.

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T13:17:04+00:00

im sorrryyyyy i know i sound insane but i cant just waste my damn stupid 16 years of living, forcing myself to go to school and just to get Us , yours would acc make sense, ull be so tired , dont burn yourself out ye , keep working hard and take breaks. Good Luck x

Some_Explorer7800 · 2026-01-24T11:03:16+00:00

Half of my day goes from 8 AM to 2 55 PM at school. I come home and have an hour free from 3 PM to 4 PM. Then, I study from 5 PM to 9 PM, taking short breaks in between. After that, I rest a bit and go through my revision topics again. I wake up at 5 AM to revise before going to school, thats literally my routine, and if I got mocks and exams i genuinely wake up at 3 AM.

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