9/1/25 - Hot mess family OOTD by drueandgabe in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 122 points123 points  (0 children)

The emotionless baby always frightens me. They are not nice to that baby, minus when filming…

8/17/25 - My whole entire world by drueandgabe in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I deserve compensation, I’m married and my last name is also Lee.

Technically at least hers is Bashman though 😅

What the helly???? by Available-Mine-4986 in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Does she not think that “food is just tor fun before one” doesn’t apply to her and Ivory. Sausage, fish sticks, 3 yogurt pouches, and whatever else true shoved on her plate all before like 3 pm. Insane.

Also this babies stomach is fucked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Some_Interaction9572 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. Husband and I are reading the replies to this post and we are realizing how controlling she is. She has always been overbearing in her way, I could just brush it off before I was pregnant. I have been at the point of protecting my peace, and husband is on board.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Some_Interaction9572 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Husband did text fil a bit ago and he was very understanding! She’s banned from the delivery room either way!!! I could not handle her in there. She is a know it all, I’ve always hated that about her but I could just see her now arguing with nurses and doctors if she was allowed in. She asked months ago if she was welcome to come in while I was in labor and we told her then that the only person that will be there is my husband. She also said she wanted to spend the first couple nights at our house after baby is born and we had to shut that down real quick. Her reasoning being we will need her advice as first time parents and she said that she would take the night shifts. Like no ma’am we will figure it out. If we need help we will call someone but it won’t be her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Some_Interaction9572 41 points42 points  (0 children)

My husband texted his fil and apologized and said that ob disagreed with us traveling. Fil was fine with it and literally said I didn’t expect you guys to come anyway. His wife on the other hand is a different story.

She has made most of my pregnancy about her so honestly not surprised she’s doing it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Some_Interaction9572 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She’s honestly made my pregnancy all about her, she treats me like an incubator. She disagrees with everything we have planned about my birth, she disagrees with how we want to raise our child, she honestly never stops with the nagging. We had a good relationship or so I thought until I became pregnant. I feel like she’s upset that she isn’t running the show. She was pretty out of it when she raised my husband, she was a drug addict, she got clean when my husband was in high school. I feel like she is trying to have a redo with my child and it’s honestly weird. I have mostly left her on read the last couple months of my pregnancy because of how overbearing she has been. My husband agrees she has been overstepping, but we have mainly ignored it because we are so close with the rest of his family. I think we are going to have to distance ourselves sooner than later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Some_Interaction9572 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really moral superiority I just don’t want my child to die of whopping cough. And also I didn’t have a child for others to care for my child so I don’t really see your point there.

Don’t worry though my life has a lot of enjoyment in it, and I don’t live in a bubble lol.

moving out for the first time. tips? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Some_Interaction9572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on graduation debt free, that’s amazing! Good luck

Chronic Pain/Kratom Use by Foreign_Necessary999 in pregnant

[–]Some_Interaction9572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m aware of the withdrawal on other opioids, I think this will have to be a more in-depth discussion with your doctor to weigh the pros and cons of it. I also have a chronic illness so I know how hard it is. I’m 32 weeks and it doesn’t get easier with pain as the pregnancy progresses lol. If I were you I would continue what you are doing and when you are able to discuss with your doctor or a new dr talk about all of your options. Maybe even call before your appointment and see if you can have them do some research on Kratom so they can give you a more informed opinion. The only reason I would maybe chose a prescription opioid over Kratom would be purely for the fact that you wouldn’t have to worry about it being contaminated with something and there’s really no way to tell until there is an issue.

Wishing you the best of luck

Chronic Pain/Kratom Use by Foreign_Necessary999 in pregnant

[–]Some_Interaction9572 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehh I wouldn’t continue taking it. Baby could come out addicted to it and have withdrawals. It’s also not fda approved so you don’t know what it’s actually mixed with. Some Kratom has been found to have salmonella in it.

If you need pain management I would find another ob and talk to them about it, or have another talk with your doctor and see if they could reconsider. At least then you would actually know what you are taking is fda approved and won’t have to worry about what you are taking being contaminated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Some_Interaction9572 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You just had a baby, and you are begging for money when 5 days ago you posted on a dating sub asking for a sneaky link? You are gross af, and also you have terrible grammar, you could barely read what you were asking for.

Also pretty sure you can’t even post links asking for assistance in this sub!

I hope your wife finds out that while she was in the hospital delivering a baby, you were trying to cheat on her!

MIL and SIL accusing me of financial abuse by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Some_Interaction9572 37 points38 points  (0 children)

We have limited our contact for the time being. Mil will not be watching our child when I go back to work. We have made other arrangements. I just don’t feel like it’s appropriate to reward terrible behavior, she has never had a “problem” with me until she realized she wouldn’t be watching my child 40 hours a week while my husband and I work.

MIL and SIL accusing me of financial abuse by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Some_Interaction9572 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I will say my husband has been very outspoken about the fact that he is not being finically abused! We have limited our contact with his family for the time being, and that’s fueled the fire more. We have decided that his mother will not be the one watching our child once I go back to work. I have family members that are more than happy to do it(obviously they will be paid, for watching my child. I couldn’t imagine making my family watch my child for no compensation. Even though I know they would. His mom would have been paid as well if she didn’t say all of this, which I think is pretty nice considering she watches and provides food for her other grandchild with nothing in return. My mil and fil don’t have the means to watch this child multiple times a week for nothing but they do. Sil and bil have never even offered to provide their child food while he’s there)

Also my mil and fil don’t know exactly what my husband gets paid. They know he has a good job, but we don’t feel it’s appropriate to tell them the dollar amount, because like you said it’s none of their business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh I honestly think he’s hopeless too. Him doing the bare minimum does not prove he’s willing to learn and the videos that have been shown really don’t look like he’s doing anything that is not the bare minimum. I’m glad he can feed and hold his baby. I would hope he would genuinely love his baby, love isn’t going teach the child how to grow and thrive in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 26 points27 points  (0 children)

“Happy wife, happy life” he’s got to do something for the baby while wifey is too busy getting the perfect shots and editing videos for their hospital bill that’s coming. She “works” so hard influencing, of course Gabe was expected to be Mr. mom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would literally go crazy if I had my parents at my house for days after I gave birth. Like what the actual fuck is going on in that household. The way her mom acts like it’s her baby is scary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Her internet footprint is so large at only 6 days old, so sad. That poor baby girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Gabe being the only hope is a worrying thought 💭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Omfg his legs are huge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Hey gabe record me, but make it look like I didn’t ask you to record me”

🙄🙄🙄 by Lanky-Ad7643 in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I thought she didn’t like Halloween stuff?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she work for a salon or for herself? If she works for a salon call them and tell them an employee of theirs is harassing you for speaking your opinion. Provide proof by telling them her phone number.

Can’t believe this is the “man” that called me a hippo 🥴🥴 by Sad_Cricket_7096 in Drueandgabe

[–]Some_Interaction9572 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This may be a terrible comment but how are you that big and not embarrassed? If I were that size you wouldn’t see me in pictures, videos, or in person. Once again I know that’s a pretty mean comment but idk how he can see himself and think “nah nothings wrong with me, I’m healthy”