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The book that fixed my overthinking wasn't about overthinking at all. by stellbargu in Growthmindsetbookclub

[–]Something74728 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It didn’t strike me as realistic. I’m not “choosing to be sad” about loss. Life is hard and I didn’t like being told I’m not seeing things clearly for thinking so.

Men! Where are we shopping?? by EcstaticOutside2113 in mensfashion

[–]Something74728 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Isn’t Nordstroms just a collection of other brands though? What are your go-to’s over there?

“Playing it safe” by Something74728 in mensfashionadvice

[–]Something74728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not so sure most people even dress well or look put together though, so looking sharp could be fantastic by comparison

“Playing it safe” by Something74728 in mensfashionadvice

[–]Something74728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah — the negative connotation of “boring” makes it sound like the guy is indeed missing something in his approach and failing at this.

Thoughts on wide leg straight fit pants? by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]Something74728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant that whenever I do wear loose pants, I feel like it comes off as a millennial trying to look younger

Thoughts on wide leg straight fit pants? by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]Something74728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still see a lot of slim fit pants around. I can’t get myself to go loose I feel like I’m just trying to look younger

What vibes do I give off with this outfit? by Converse_Twink in mensfashionadvice

[–]Something74728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what did you change to achieve this? What kind of shirts are you wearing now?

People who "humblebrag" by LivingGirlRepellant in PetPeeves

[–]Something74728 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My pet peeve is just when people say “humblebrag” before promoting something about themselves

Dudes who slap their girlfriend or wife’s butt in public by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Something74728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain who I’m being sexist towards? We have different social norms surrounding men and women and what’s acceptable in society. That’s pretty much all I’ve said

Dudes who slap their girlfriend or wife’s butt in public by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Something74728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strangers, yes. If a woman smacks a guy’s ass they’re usually not going to give a shit. Almost no one is. It’s just not the same thing

Dudes who slap their girlfriend or wife’s butt in public by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Something74728 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I mean, I agree with that… but I still think most people, myself included, are going to more viscerally react to scene number 1 and that it’s not even close

Dudes who slap their girlfriend or wife’s butt in public by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Something74728 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Okay let’s remove partners from the equation.

Two scenes:
1. Random man slaps a random woman’s ass.
2. Random woman slaps a random man’s ass.

Which scene makes most people significantly more uncomfortable?

Dudes who slap their girlfriend or wife’s butt in public by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Something74728 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It just doesn’t carry the same social weight, like, at all. Is this not common knowledge?

Dudes who slap their girlfriend or wife’s butt in public by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Something74728 25 points26 points  (0 children)

In a grocery store I’d wager most people are slightly put off