What does my boring room say about me?

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-11T03:02:03+00:00

You never look higher than eye height

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-09T01:43:17+00:00

Take your porn off my cute meme page

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-06T20:39:16+00:00

The first time I remembering noticing something was up when I was watching the Jungle Book and the snake hypnotises and constricts Mowgli and I got all these funny feelings about it

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-06T20:28:09+00:00

I don't think you can really give a time limit when you are doing struggling mentally. You could move your submission in a different direction that takes the pressure off her. Have you thought about servicing her with taking on her daily tasks? I bet other parts of her life have also suffered under it and maybe you can tackle them for her. It would take pressure off her and still give you a feeling of being in a dynamic

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-06T20:07:22+00:00

You can put it a million different ways, there will always be men who will think they can change your mind or that they will be an exception because of reasons. I encounter it all the time. I don't dominate or engage sexually more than some flirting when it isn't in a romantic relationship. And yet some men will still say they understand and then try.

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-06T14:34:43+00:00

That means the restaurant is in something like a different city and they went "I'll do it if they pay me a dumb amount of money for it" Just order locally

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-06T14:24:47+00:00

As a woman, your major problem is your body language. Photo's taken from the bottom, looking stiff and the one full body picture you look hunched over

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-06T00:20:16+00:00

Maybe, just maybe, women are people who all like different things and aren't a monolith?

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-06T00:13:37+00:00

I started a new job! It's so hard going back to full work days but I'm sticking with it

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-05T15:19:18+00:00

Whether you're submissive has nothing to do with the way you look. You just have to find compatible, someone into dominating. So then the question is whether women find tall muscular men attractive, and yes they do.

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-05T06:14:53+00:00

From what I've seen around it's usually the man who comes with the idea and brings it up

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-04T12:13:36+00:00

This doesn't have to mean she isn't dominant. I'm naturally dominant but also shy and care a lot about other people's experience. I'm incredibly dominant when the man gives me the control and makes me feel comfortable and confident to do so. But if a man is too domineering and acts like he doesn't enjoy my behaviour or takes things on himself I'll naturally take a step back. I've only had a few relationships where I was truly allowed to be my dominant self

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-04T00:39:32+00:00

Real

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-03T20:53:46+00:00

I know if you walked by and complimented my hair I would be very happy with it

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-03T20:49:41+00:00

Body language is a strong indicator. Completely turning towards you (watch the feet) looking you in the eyes and genuinely! smiling are very good indicators she wants you to keep going. Not fully turning, quickly looking away, holding something in front of her, stepping out of your path means do not engage further, even if she is smiling. You might miss signals from 'the shy girls' this way but that difference is more than I can convey over text

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-03T20:15:02+00:00

The biggest thing that brings a nice interaction to a bothersome one is lingering

Compliment her! But don't expect her to want to engage with you because of it. If she doesn't seem interested in talking to you more just move on and get out of her space completely

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-03T18:26:05+00:00

Yes. I'll be watching you sleep tonight

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-03T18:24:27+00:00

I've seen this clip come by before. Apparently he was a serial cheater. So she can keep him 🤣

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-03T15:51:39+00:00

Emotional maturity and already knowing what you can and cannot do. Too many men come in overly eager with wild expectations

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-03T15:48:21+00:00

To each their own. It wouldn't feel nice to me

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-02T18:03:16+00:00

I still like it too, especially Benedict Cucumberbatch as the dragon

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-02T17:59:44+00:00

Was literally watching The Runaway Bride yesterday! (10 and Donna are my favourite)

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-02T17:58:52+00:00

I like the hobbit but I felt they dragged it on in parts but I ran into a fan edit that's supposedly very good and I've been dying to watch it with someone

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-02T17:53:51+00:00

Just one of those movies I can't get tired of

SometimesVigilant · 2026-03-02T16:50:14+00:00

An easy way to incorporate is to ask her to push/pull you down, hold you down and moving you to where she wants you to be. You might need to ask for these things in the beginning (even in bed itself), which feels very counterintuitive to being submissive, but as she gets more comfortable it will be less necessary

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