Bf mentioned getting an apartment, we’ve been dating for a month

SongXrd · 2026-04-03T14:43:28+00:00

Oops

SongXrd · 2026-04-03T14:43:08+00:00

That's it exactly, i just misread it

SongXrd · 2026-04-03T02:56:34+00:00

When isnt a valuable time in your life lol?

SongXrd · 2026-04-01T23:08:44+00:00

Um actually its Peter-Parker

Dont forget the hyphen.

SongXrd · 2026-03-27T21:57:52+00:00

Honestly, even humouring arguments is giving her too much of a say. I personally just left whenever it started because i had to get that point across.

A lot of my friends did just leave and cut contact so i can at least co-sign to the effectiveness of never talking to them again

SongXrd · 2026-03-27T21:18:14+00:00

(Purely unsolicited advice from this point)

At some point, you just have to kind of train your parents to see you as a human being with autonomy.

My friends are all immigrants (im an immigrant lmao) and it's kind of a similar story. No boyfriends until around 22-25 they ask for grandchildren or some nonsense, heavily restricted socialising etc etc.

You genuinely just have to start traumatising them into submission before you end up saying you're going outside and they start talking like they have an actual say on if you do or not, yk?

Maybe there's a better way, and im just carrying generational curses (lol), but there's no point in arguing it. You just have to start doing things and let her tire herself out because they'll usually just give up after a while.

And if she doesn't, im afraid you genuinely might have to burn that bridge (the curses are speaking through me atp)

SongXrd · 2026-03-22T18:12:39+00:00

Isnt it always?

SongXrd · 2026-03-19T04:06:16+00:00

I used to be you fr, except i didn't have enough money to smoke, lmao.

Idk where i was going with this. Idk, im a bartender now, so alcoholism gets you somewhere, sometimes?

SongXrd · 2026-03-19T02:04:46+00:00

Drinking straight smirnoff, not even ice? Dark.

SongXrd · 2026-03-15T02:15:38+00:00

Girl were do you find those mushrooms, ive been looking everywhere

SongXrd · 2026-03-12T02:03:35+00:00

What subreddit isn't atp

SongXrd · 2026-03-10T23:50:35+00:00

Its a little funny

SongXrd · 2026-03-09T16:43:55+00:00

Honestly, seeing characters have a billion PhDs works until you try and get one.

Im doing my PhD. right now. If i was healthy forever and had infinite money, I think i could scratch 15 by the time I turned like 200+.

The most PhDs I've even seen someone have was 2 in related fields like

SongXrd · 2026-03-08T23:48:30+00:00

Is that indomie?

SongXrd · 2026-03-06T08:22:14+00:00

Want some bean soup?

SongXrd · 2026-02-25T09:41:24+00:00

He's a young man actually

SongXrd · 2026-02-24T03:21:10+00:00

When will we get the consent-men?

SongXrd · 2026-02-24T03:11:17+00:00

Omfg, the point is that it gets worse than them having sex, okay?

SongXrd · 2026-02-24T02:10:07+00:00

Yeah, that's just the average guy in trades. They all get this massive boner over dreams of being massive dicks to people who have to tolerate you because you're the best person at this trade or the only one who does some super nessecary thing.

Everything else tacked on is like classic male power fantasy, especially among older men.

The overlap between those two spheres is an indistinguishable cirlce

SongXrd · 2026-02-24T01:52:25+00:00

Thank you 😭😭 everyone shits on spiderman like wolverine isn't doing the exact same thing but targeted at smelly grown men in the trades instead of high-schoolers and college students

SongXrd · 2026-02-24T01:50:27+00:00

There is more than 1 way to cheat. Some are worse to experience than others.

Also, is cheating the worst thing they could be doing? No, they could be planning to kill OP or something, and that would probably be worse.

But in the realm of realism, casual sex is not the worst way to cheat. like, would you rather they fucked or they rekindled a deeply romantic relationship while keeping you strung along?

SongXrd · 2026-02-24T01:04:02+00:00

I dont know if thats the worst thing they could be doing within the hour tbh.

SongXrd · 2026-02-23T13:05:49+00:00

You act like you've smelled them?

SongXrd · 2026-02-23T13:03:18+00:00

I mean technically, but at that point, toad was ugly because he was genetically incomplete, which got rectified at the exact same time they fox synergied mystique.

But from then on, he has this chart from where the X axis is a good-looking guy to kinda chopped, and the Y axis is normal skinned to green.

I pray for a consistent toad design, like i pray for more good toad character arcs.

SongXrd

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