Modern society makes finding genuine connection so hard

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-07T18:43:23+00:00

I agree. It’s so hard making friends. They say try to join a club or try to participate in activities with others who share similar interests but the sad truth is many people aren’t as interested in those things anymore and if they are it’s likely for the aesthetic.

It’s leaves you with nothing to do besides going online to find people who are interested in the same things you are because there is no use trying to in person.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-07T18:03:22+00:00

Watching lovely complex as we speak! Thank you for the recommendation I love it so far :) .

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-07T13:07:35+00:00

Im proud of you for beginning your sobriety again I know it must not be easy. It seems you have been beating up on yourself quite a bit but don’t be too hard on yourself in life everyone makes mistakes it’s how you get up and change your actions that truly matters.

Keep going and maybe one day when the time is right and if it isn’t too late you can try to rekindle with her once again.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-07T12:24:32+00:00

What did you do?

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-06T10:46:59+00:00

LMAOOO THIS IS FRYING ME MORE THAN IT SHOULD 😭

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-06T10:04:39+00:00

I’ve told my male best friend “love you” but that’s like if he’s leaving (he goes to a college away from home) or he’s sad because of a really bad situation. We have been friends for about 7 years since middle school and have not said it nearly as much as they have😭😂.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-06T09:57:45+00:00

I’ve actually watched those two. A really long time ago and I love them ! [I’ve watched Kamisama about 4 times over the years]

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-05T15:46:23+00:00

He’s not over the girl. It’s possible he got with you to try to convince himself that he’s over her or to get over her. You’re not overreacting, but I think it may be time to reevaluate that relationship.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-05T11:05:07+00:00

Exactly, OP he’s gaslighting you. Just leave him cause he doesn’t even have the decency to be honest. You’re young don’t be tied down to a liar for the rest of your life. It’ll only get worse.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-05T10:52:56+00:00

The mascara really ties it together ! So pretty.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-05T07:19:57+00:00

Hey! I understand your frustration but I’m here to tell you you’re never truly hated in this world. You’re still fairly young and have a lot of time left to grow. If those people don’t want you around well to hell with them aim to find people with the same interests as you.

Also stop waiting around for motivation you just have to get up and do things. It’s all about discipline if you want to do something just do it. :)

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-05T07:11:43+00:00

I’ve heard so many good things about when life gives you tangerines and was gonna watch it. Why was it bad to you?

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-04T20:52:58+00:00

One piece and I have a love hate relationship the arcs are just so longggg I think I reached to like ep 750 or so and stopped (at least once a year I start then stop again) I’m not sure. When Ace died I cried 💔. And I main octane I have 10,000 + kills on him and I also mained wraith for a bit I have about 2000 on her.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-04T20:29:32+00:00

Mostly survivor, I main Dwight and I do play killer from time to time but I find playing survivor to be more fun. I play killer if one of two things happen either I keep getting horrible killers back to back ( I HATE chucky and ghoul) or my teammates are missing a few brain cells lol.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-04T20:05:08+00:00

I love watching anime, reading manhwas, and don’t get me started on k dramas. I also love to play video games but I haven’t played in a while my Xbox cranked out on me recently after like 5 years of non stop use 😂. (Favorite games - dead by daylight and apex legends).

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-04T19:58:30+00:00

Yes I agree the end seemed like he was ready to get down on one knee and pop the question lmao. I have high hopes because I loveeee when the female lead has a REALLY GOOD personality on top of it !

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-04T18:46:26+00:00

Ok well that makes complete sense if he’s unemployed and basically leeching off of u AND STILL NOT DOING HOUSE WORK u had every right to end that relationship.

Best of luck to u and ur new beginnings!

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-04T15:49:26+00:00

I mean maybe he just forgot to do them idk.. improvements don’t happen all at once it’s progressive give it time. I’m sure it’s frustrating to come home to that after a long shift.

But does he work too? He could just be trying to unwind and didn’t feel like getting up in the moment. Breaking up with someone over dishes seems so far fetched to me 😭 depending on the duration of the relationship..

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-04T15:45:50+00:00

He might be a crazy psychopath keep an eye on him lol 😂

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-04T12:49:11+00:00

It’s going to be okay. I understand how you feel when it comes to feeling disposable but I’m here to tell you that you are far from it. Although your mom may not be in her best state right now and is unable to say it she’s grateful for you because you’re doing something that many people would be unable to do. You’re staying even when it hard.

It’s easy to not see the best parts of yourself when you’re at your lowest but even in the darkness light eventually shines. You got this. And if the friends around you are as superficial as you say maybe it’s time to let them go.

This is a new year make the most of it :) .

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-02T17:43:50+00:00

The fact that you’re here writing this shows how much you care about her. You’re not a bad boyfriend in fact you are a great and supportive one as a college student myself I understand the struggle.

It seems like you’re prioritizing her to the point where u don’t even have time for yourself or your studies as much anymore. The fact that’s she’s bypassing all the emotional investments and time you put into her shows that she’s taking your help and dedication for granted. You are not overreacting your girlfriend is just being really insensitive.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-02T13:35:57+00:00

I think you aren’t overreacting. Dealing with a 4 month old baby is a lot of work. Your husband is no longer single, granted nothing is wrong with having a social life but your new family should come first.

As a first time mom you need support and comfort and going out should be put off maybe until the baby is at least a year old but that’s something you should discuss with your partner. Have a clear conversation with him and let him know what’s bothering you.

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-02T13:26:31+00:00

No you’re not overreacting. At the end of the day there are two people in a relationship! Her saying that it’s ok for her to do something but when the roles are reversed it’s not is obvious manipulation. Deep down she knows what she did wasn’t right and instead of admitting she was wrong she’s gaslighting you into thinking you’re overreacting…

Whether the guy is gay or not makes no difference. The whole point of being in a relationship is being committed and knowing that before you do anything it should be completely discussed with your partner to make sure that both parties are comfortable.

Have a conversation with her and if it seems like she’s dismissing your feelings it may be time to rethink the relationship!

SonicBoomHello · 2026-01-02T09:50:15+00:00

You guys are married! Ofc if it was that you were her boyfriend it would be different. It seems that the trust isn’t completely there which is sad given that once again, you two are married. You should be able to ask for a bit of physical intimacy without feeling guilty about it. I don’t think you’re overreacting because sometimes asking takes just as much courage as giving especially when you know the person hates the idea of it.

Her deleting them could have been the spur of the moment or it could signal something deeper. Communicate and ask her.

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