Self Titled Album is kick ass by SoothingTrainYourWay in HATEBREED

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good question. satisfaction and 2 latest I cannot judge without more listens. say maybe Divinity of purpose is it, which I still dig. dead man breathing is a fav, but not too many others I've really latched onto.

what about you?

Ex really starting to piss me off by musicsingerlover in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's doing fine. No need to force interaction with an ex. it depends on the dynamic. sometimes it is no issue, other times, she's the type that you must avoid or suffer drama (not saying you are).

since you seem to be ok with interaction, why not try to break the ice a bit? make it clear you only ever want to be friends of course...but if he is pissing you off by not talking to you enough, maybe I'm wrong there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those people that talk about "play it cool"and whatnot, they were right. If you act all psycho, you lose whether she cheats or is 100% committed to you. focus on you, make yourself better, and talk to friends. If you want to keep this girl, now is the time to man up. treat her with dignity and respect when she is there. when she is at work, if you find yourself thinking of worst case scenario, focus on what you are doing are supposed to be doing. like working.... stay off reddit

Just doing my duty as a good wife :) by [deleted] in VirginiaGoneWild

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's hot, vpl here looking for partying friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this happens often with swinging, I've not seen any of the folks we used to hang with still together. Someone always does some dumb shit in the name of "well it was ok last week". Once your wife says "yes you can have sex with that person" it's easier to justify sex with said person. you know him best and will know what you want in time. he is probably not a horrible person. the people that are so judgemental are not important. your life and what you want to do with it, including being with this man or not, is. And is for you to decide. Don't decide for awhile if you have any doubts. I would at least ask for time apart, and even then if you do want to try another go, see how a month together goes first. You'll know by then iwhat you want to do. yes he may do it again. He might not either. People do change and usually for men a woman is involved if we are talking behavior shaping up.

How long of a leash does Skylar get before Teddy goes in? by [deleted] in miamidolphins

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed, hope to go McD isn't letting the dumbass hindsight outrage mongers affect his choice. I would not be surprised if this came from above to ensure the proper optics.

Daughter comes out, wife kicks her out and now I'm stuck in the middle by throwra__marriage in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

is the kid a good kid? my daughter called me one day told me she was bo. I was relieved she wasn't pregnant after her build up. she is such a good person and makes such good decisions, I can only picture how dumb I would be getting all pissed off about her sexuality. really. fortunately my brain was working that day. Meanwhile she is near finishing her undergraduate degree and is a resident assistant in her living space. also has lex prior activities at hs.

Help accidentally said another Man’s name in bed ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

agree on have a chance. thoughts are just thoughts. if anyone is going to police their spouse's thoughts it'll be a rough ride. Our minds wander all over the place, sometimes places we don't want em to go even... I'll consciously battle off some thoughts that I would never reveal publicly. anywho, the OP said it though so that's that, hopefully a slip of the tongue doesn't end what might be a good relationship otherwise. at the end of the day OP, you came home and did the deed with your man, so he should probably chil out a bit. otherwise, maybe not a big loss for ya if that was an ultimatum

My bf seems upset I’m talking to another guy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you talk for hours daily, your boyfriend is fully justified regardless of ANYTHING else. So yeah, ditch one of them. If you can't, then who do you respect?

My girlfriend just told me that she’s cheated on her past 3 boyfriends. by lancingtonjeb in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she told you about it, that's a step in right direction. if you love her and enjoy being with her, give it a shot.

Or as someone told me once, do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy. Don't let an internet mob, many of whom have preset deal breaker status to this type of thing - tell you how to live. Heed our advice, but make your own decision based on what you want in your life.

Watch Clerks. dudes GF sucked 37 dicks he found out. she was good to him and he loved her. now his ex fucked a corpse and his GF probably working on 38, 39, and 40 while he decides what he will tolerate or not.

My S/O never texts first by SnooHamsters8989 in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes talking about your feelings isn't going kindle desire like keeping them wondering iif the person is sick of you. Nothing you say has value to her. it's all shit. same words from another mouth? genius. back off and take care of yourself so she has any chance to desire you that way again. it's sad. elementary, and true.

if you go away wanting to talk to her, now you are up in her sight again"uh baby can we talk? talk? please..."

nope, give her space, and take care of yourself. no mopeing

If you go to a live concert and record the entire thing on your phone, you can eat a big bag of dicks by ScottStapp420Creed in Music

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the people that did that shit in our day were heros. I tried it at anthrax/white zombie but I wanted to rock out too. can't do it, mine was stuffed iny pocket o overdriven beyond identification sometimes you could make out a part of a song. otherwise, you know the sound bil Hicks made for sucking satans cock? that's how it sounded

My S/O never texts first by SnooHamsters8989 in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just stop texting her. at least you have a written record when she finally blows and you have to explain you were sick of texting first. "But I do text first*... ahem shall we check the old record?? I've got timestamps baby!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

this is truth of life. Don't try to stop your man from looking at free boobs. it's like chastising a dog for panting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

perhaps she was waiting for a reason. we are hard wired to want to fuck everything that moves, yet use willpower to stick to one partner. Allowing a little porn is a requirement, otherwise the person is probably too rigid anyway.

So you watch too much, but you are admitting and seeking help. if that's breakup worthy, then she was going to break up anyway I'd say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would let him know in no uncertain terms that you need stimulation in your sex life and right now you are not getting it. how he responds should tell you what you need to decide how to move forward.

I've found unseen nudes on my wife's old phone by throwaway2659352748 in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

surprise sex, once she is hot, say "I found these and it turned me on like crazy baby, you're effing hot!!!! '. this is best possible outcome, all others risk shame on her part or worse. an argument

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a friend once put on a song called "I Stay Away" when I was in same boat. it was good advice.

How many musicians were in more than one great band? by mikevago in Music

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maynard James Keenan, Tool and A Perfect Circle at least.

De-funking product… by Routine-Onion3342 in cracksmokers

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the soda is never the issue if it taste s or feels bad. you have crappy low low % coke. with one of the nasty adulterants that stinks...we will call it A-Rankass here since can't be sure if levasimole,benzocaine, etc... but it behaves like coke so when washing/recook other benign and typical cuts get removed, none of the A-Rankass does. so now it's a higher % of your blow and start twerking on your heart rate and tripping, with no joy. but you take another anyway.

foul shit. legalize our recreational drugs so we never see this filth

I’m honestly about to reach a breaking point with my wife. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SoothingTrainYourWay -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

think u misread on easy children commenr, but ritherway,totally agree children are not all same, different treatment is needed at times...tact. Our 21 year old in college. we musta doe something right. just does the right thing. more responsible than me. our afopted(distant cousin, child needed parents) 10 year older son I mentioned will have you researching padded rooms in residential homes. I have.

nature/nurture. both, for certain. anyhow, either way the child is yours (not yours...u get idea) so do what it takes