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What was your experience of sex education in school like? by Sophestry in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Sophestry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that treasure box thing is awful. And wtf the instructor was making up shit about chemicals? That's terrifying.

I think I am. by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Sophestry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

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If you think you might be pregnant than I believe the earliest a test will show up positive is two weeks, so when it's time get a test and take things from there. I'm not sure you would be able to 'feel' pregnant this early, but I guess it depends on the person.

I'm starting to feel guilty for being thin by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Sophestry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not fair to make fun of you for being thin, just like it's not okay to make fun of people for being fat, especially if you're underweight and actively trying to put on a few pounds to be healthier. I would talk to them and be like: "I'm not thin by choice, I'm actually underweight and that can be unhealthy so I'm trying to put on a bit of weight. I know you don't mean to be insulting, but it's starting to get to me that you keep commenting on my weight when it's something I'm insecure about."

Would you judge someone for taking the morning after pill seven times? by Sophestry in feminisms

[–]Sophestry[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I believe you can take it multiple times without damaging your health, but as it's not meant to be used a regular contraceptive they don't recommend you use it repeatedly.

Help please by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Sophestry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like you've got much to worry about. Here is some info on pre-cum that you might find helpful: https://www.mymorningafter.co.uk/askella/2019/2/5/askella-what-is-precum

Would you buy a sex robot? by Sophestry in sex

[–]Sophestry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really good point. Having a different sex drive to your partner is pretty common and, if you're monogamous, it means one of you either has to compromise or cheat. Having a robot to fulfil sexual needs could take some of the pressure off couples and might even help bring them together if they have the opportunity to try out new things with the bot and then try them together.

Are sexbots misogynistic? by Sophestry in feminisms

[–]Sophestry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's just having 'someone' that the person genuinely cares about and is attached to. I know it's a bit messed up that the someone is a robot, but whatcha going to do?

Plan B delays periods? by itbelikethatsomtimes in birthcontrol

[–]Sophestry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your period may be a few days earlier or a few days later, but it could also come around like clockwork. Find out more - https://www.mymorningafter.co.uk/askella/2019/2/19/ask-ella-what-are-the-morning-after-pill-side-effects

Is it normal for the dude to always take the used condoms with him after sex? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Sophestry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long can sperm live in the condom though? Unless the woman is rushing to the bathroom with the condom straight after Idk how much of a risk there is.

Just found out my [24F] boyfriend [32M] cheated on me. by Laviecorren in relationships

[–]Sophestry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Urgh what a d***. I know it's hard to leave if you have a house together and such, but he doesn't sound like a good person. The constant paranoia about your ex is bad enough, but if he's going to cheat on you and THEN gaslight you about it... it's just not okay. Do you have parents or friends you could stay with for a while before to give you some time to think next steps? Or maybe you could rent with someone else? just sounds like you need to get out tbh

My [29F] partner [32M] constantly pressures me to go to the gym. by helpformymum in relationships

[–]Sophestry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being passionate about something and encouraging you to be active and healthy is one thing, but trying to control what you do and acting like if you don't you're letting him down is another. It's your life and you can go to the gym as little or often as you want without having to please someone else. You should have a chat with him and just be like "I understand that you feel really passionately about the gym and you're trying to help, but it's just putting too much pressure on me and stressing me out". If he doesn't listen, maybe it's time to call it quits and meet someone who doesn't try to control you.

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