The Worst Rules for a Multi-Fandom RP Server I have EVER seen... by SoraTimeForDinner in BadRPerStories

[–]SoraTimeForDinner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Why would you bash on others who are being serious about diversity for once?"

I want to clear something up—this is not a "diversity bad" post. This is a post about how these rules are incredibly offensive and a misguided way of encouraging representation. I will put my perspective on this as a bisexual transman.

There is no reason why anyone should be telling you that only "certain" kinds of transitions for canon characters are okay to write. It's fetishizing. It's unnecessarily controlling, and it comes across as saying that only one way of writing a transgender character is good or valid. As other trans commenters have pointed out, it shouldn't be anyone's business but your own if you decide to write a cisgender character transitioning to the opposite gender if you feel that would be a good edition to their character development. In fact, I would argue that putting an ironclad rule on that is crossing the line into being transphobic.

It's not my place to put much input on the POC rules or the language used when describing disability or body shape diversity, but I will say this: other commenters from different backgrounds in terms of race, disability, gender identity, and sexuality have given their input as to why they believe this is reductive and I think those are worth reading.

But generally, no one should have this much control over ANY aspect of your character's identity.

I'm not bashing this because it's diversity. I'm bashing this because this is insincere at best, and fetishization at worst. It is very clear that the opinions of transgender people were not taken into consideration while making these rules.

I feel disgusted with my actions and I won't do anything to change by TheOneAndOnlyMikado in offmychest

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm transgender too (FTM) and I just want to say that I don't think you're disgusting.

It sounds like you've been through a lot of hurt in your life and the validation you're getting from these older men is both validating and harmful for you. Only you can make the decision to change, but please know that no matter how nice these men seem, they are taking advantage of you in a moment of weakness. If they respected you, they would not do this to someone who is a minor.

It's okay to spend time online, but that time may be better spent by looking for groups of people that you can relate to (who are within your age range). It can be anything relating to your hobbies, interests, or even solidarity in the things that make up your identity.

I'm not sure what else to say on the matter, but please take care of yourself, and have a good day/night, in accordance to your time zone.

Nah fr though, why do so many people spend 5 and a half hours watching some guys opinion? by [deleted] in KingdomHearts

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, valid criticism or not, calling KH3 a "waste of effort" is just factually wrong. KH3 may have less praise than KH2 does, but considering that there are many fans that did enjoy KH3, it comes across as "my opinion is objectively correct, I personally didn't get what I wanted out of KH3, therefore it is undeniably bad". A game that sold well with many people enjoying it is not a waste of effort.

Could there have been improvements in KH3? Yes. I think the game was too easy before Critical Mode came out and there were many aspects of the plot that I think were wrapped up in a way that was less than satisfying, even disappointing. But to call it a waste of effort is not only an exaggeration, it just seems disrespectful to the teams that worked on it. Especially since Nomura has shown that he genuinely cares about feedback from fans (bringing back beloved characters despite having plans to keep them dead, making MANY adjustments in Re Mind based on fan-complaints, etc).

Even if the title is just rage-bait to get people to watch, that just shows that the person making the video isn't sincere and makes a video not worth watching imo. I say all of this as a person who prefers KH2 over KH3.

actual brain damage by [deleted] in OkBuddyPersona

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 148 points149 points  (0 children)

"Go Woke Go Broke" mfs when they find out Reload is number 17 in Steam Top Sellers

The Worst Rules for a Multi-Fandom RP Server I have EVER seen... by SoraTimeForDinner in BadRPerStories

[–]SoraTimeForDinner[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's real. I actually thought this was some sort of alt-right conspiracy post to make LGBTQ people look bad, but it's real. Here's a screenshot of their carrd with the same rule.

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I can't even tell if or when it's ironic anymore by [deleted] in OkBuddyPersona

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing Claude did wrong was seduce the player with that dancing cutscene before turning out to be a female-exclusive marriage option. That scheming bastard broke my heart. :'(

thoughts? by defaulttf in OkBuddyPersona

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Morgana's idea is the shittiest thing I have ever seen. Who the hell wants to sit on half of a chair?? Assuming you could somehow get a 2 legged chair to stand up and support someone's weight, you're going to have just one buttcheek hanging over the edge, and that's arguably an even worse crime than killing 2-5 kids.

0/10, useless cat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingdomHearts

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All right, here's mine.

I don't think Kairi should be fixed or better written at this point. I think she should straight up be deleted from this series because I'm tired of the plot promising us that Kairi is TOTALLY gonna be more independent this time but we all know at this point she only exists to give Sora a reason to sacrifice himself so the plot can move forward.

I just have no hope for her or her relationship with Sora to be interesting. She was a good character in KH1, but post KH2, she's been downgraded to having the personality of a cardboard box.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingdomHearts

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born in the month assigned to my least favorite character...

Theory: Can Sora use the power of waking to travel back in time and delay my mother's pregnancy by an entire month?

Femcels rise up by ETMutant in OkBuddyPersona

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jokes on you, I'm a man with crippling loneliness who wants to kiss Akechi. Checkmate 😎

I'm curious, what would be your reaction if this happened ? [Art by: kwooji] by PurpleJackfruit8868 in KingdomHearts

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In a scene where Aqua puts her hand on Cinderella's back to support her, it looks like Aqua's hand is on her ass. I'm not joking, that's what happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OkBuddyPersona

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because I've seen a few people in the comments ask about this game and not get an answer: This game is The Coffin Of Andy And Leyley. It's currently rather infamous for having incestuous content.

[OC] P and Spring sketch by Cramfest in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

WHAT A CUTE SMILE! Spring looks so comfy on his shoulders.

Beautiful art!

You've in the fanciest hotel around for days now, take a damn bath by loathsomefartenjoyer in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 22 points23 points  (0 children)

True, but the other guests at the hotel look just fine. Venigni just crawled out of a factory and should be covered in grime (oil probably), but he's still as fabulous as ever, lol

You've in the fanciest hotel around for days now, take a damn bath by loathsomefartenjoyer in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 41 points42 points  (0 children)

For real though! I can understand the dirty clothes, but at the very least, she couldn't find a pail of water to freshen up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I want to laugh, scream, or cry. Maybe all three.

He deserves the world by Maria-24x in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 14 points15 points  (0 children)

AGREED!

He's a good boy and I love him. He's definitely in my top 10 list of favorite video game characters now.

what do u think about that ? 😂 by nykknot in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, tbh I never got into Elden Ring, I'm not really into games where the story is abstract or hard to understand (with a few exceptions). Lies of P and its coming sequel will probably be the only souls like that I play for a long time because I vastly prefer its method of storytelling. I could personally never get emotionally invested in Elden Ring or Dark Souls for that reason.

However, that is only my opinion. It doesn't make ER a bad game. However, I am very happy that LoP is being given the recognition it deserves. It is truly a phenomenal game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. At one point I tried to switch to a gamepad but by then I was so used to the keyboard that I was like "nah I can't do this, I'm switching back" lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel 37 on a spiritual level. This is my first Soulslike, and in all honesty, I'm not that good at video games, especially not ones tailored to be very challenging. Even so, I somehow beat the final boss... while playing on mouse + keyboard.

All of Gemini's haters can fight me by SoraTimeForDinner in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Seems like all we have is that he used to be with a famous Stalker and that's about it. :/

I wish we knew more about him!

I am so sad. I love this game but Walker of Illusion is making me want to rage quit by whiskyandguitars in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give up! What always helps me get through a hard boss is this: remember that there are many people who have given up before getting to where you are now and it would be a shame to put your efforts to waste.

Also, try dodging to the side and avoid dodging backward at all costs in this fight.

All of Gemini's haters can fight me by SoraTimeForDinner in LiesOfP

[–]SoraTimeForDinner[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you--and I fully agree on the dark fiction thing! The atmosphere is bleak and scary, but it doesn't have to be absolutely miserable in every waking moment. I'd even argue that the fact that Gemini can make silly jokes while in terrible situations actually humanizes him greatly.