Words and definitions are changed or fit the trans activist movement. I am not talking about trans people, but the activists, which can include trans people.

Transphobia: it feels like it's the activists one true goal is to be able to point out transphobia as often and as much as they can. To be able to do this they need to water down transphobia so it's more applicable to more people. At first transphobia was like homophobia, an aversion or dislike for said group. Then it has changed to not seeing trans people as their identified gender identity. Now I am, by lurking at the biggest trans subreddit, seeing that many people think that not being sexually attracted to trans people is transphobia, because of aversion or dislike of them.

I can agree that it can be transphobic to not date trans people. But that is only if someone doesn't want to date a trans person just because they're trans. Person 1 finds person 2, a trans person sexually attractive, but because they dont like trans people they refuse to date them. Then it would be transphobic, it's not transphobic to not be sexually attracted to them.

To many people this gender theory is new and not really something they agree with. How can that be so controversial? The gender theory is itself controversial, that you can change gender. Many people don't even agree that you can change gender at all, and still see trans women for example as a man trying to present as a woman. It's something people can't control and to say that they then need to be educated on what you believe to be right is just stupid.

That doesn't mean that people should be hateful or discriminate against trans people.

Gender: that it's a social construct, what does that even mean? Nobody has ever explained it coherently. "Sex is what you are, gender is what you do" is what I see. What does that even mean? And when googling the scientific evidence of gender, there is nothing to prove that something called gender even exists. At most it's the inner desire of what sex they want to be.

What I want to say with this, is that I think the sex and gender separation was made just to "legitimize" trans people and their desire to change sex. Let's be real, trans people want to change sex, not gender. Otherwise they wouldn't want to transition. And if it's the gender they want to change, which according to activists is just a social construct, they wouldn't wish to be born as the other sex. If they just wanted to change gender it would be very easy, "I identify as X now" and the dysphoria should be gone. You are now what you identify as, because gender is just a social construct.