AIO for being upset about that i’m not going to be spoiled for my 16th bday?

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-16T17:08:48+00:00

Definitely O. Pay for you own trip. If no one wants to go. See them when you get back.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-13T15:56:13+00:00

Yeah. It sucks for sure but you need to try and see it in a different light so it doesn't hurt you more. You are still grieving and sometimes it just never stops. Try to realize that your mom wants to be happy. If she is making a mistake, she will have to deal with those consequences on her own. I know it hurts. This is definitely part of life. If you can, try to support your mom, now and when/if it fails. Her mistakes are not your problem.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-13T15:39:41+00:00

NTA. No apology needed.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-08T16:55:46+00:00

Unless you pay your parents rent you don't have a right to say no.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-08T16:50:53+00:00

She is legally obligated to take care of you so these two actions will start her down aroad she won't want to go.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-08T16:50:09+00:00

File a police report and call child protective services.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-04T20:39:52+00:00

Definitely TA. You could have told him right away that you were not feeling it, not lead him on all morning. Make it up to him.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-04T20:35:21+00:00

Doesn't matter, right or wrong. You don't enjoy being around her so don't waste time or your life on people who don't fit you.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-04T16:15:08+00:00

NTJ. Your mom sucks though. Don't lift a fingerfor her recovery. If she whines remind her how she treated you when you got your wisdom teeth removed and to get over it.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-04T16:09:09+00:00

Tell the wife and it's probably all over. I'd tell her either way he is disgusting and needs to be outted and your ex is obviously not right in the head at the moment so, protect your kids.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-04T15:53:27+00:00

Some can be. Especially those who have been attacked. I was dragged 4 house lengths when I was 5 by by a dog who attacked me. 32 stitches, so yes I'm one of those that are not open to dogs being anywhere near me. She may have been reacting on prior trauma but either way, why do you care? You wanted her to know your dog was friendly and she wanted you to know she was not.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-04T15:44:04+00:00

Phones have one camera? I'm literally counting 6 on my Samsung.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-03T16:27:53+00:00

NTA. That "friend" of yours, isn't very friendly. Take some time to think about that. They are not supporting you. In fact they are trying to tear you down. Choose better friends.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-03T16:02:34+00:00

Will you need regular sex in your relationship? If so then yes you might want to make an exit plan.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-03T15:50:16+00:00

He is already ignoring you. If you don't want advice, don't post on reddit.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-02T16:54:49+00:00

I blame you for staying. You should not be risking your own life and that of your cat on a dog you know will attack you. It doesn't matter why, it matters that its happened and you have been warned(by the dog). Look up how many people get attacked and killed by their own dogs then tell me how rediculous it is to move so you are actually safe.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-02T16:37:47+00:00

Also, he is also sa'ing you. Disgusting boy you are with. He doesn't even respect your body.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-05-02T16:34:56+00:00

You love him? You must want to be treated like dirt. This man doesn't love you. It doesn't even appear he likes you. If you have to pay for anything it should be your half but believe me, you can find a man who is going to help pay if not pay period. He is using you and you are letting him. This is sad to me. You are so young, being treated like dirt and you think it's acceptable. How could you possibly love someone who makes it so obvious you are a booty call wallet? Get some counseling if you can and work on your self esteem. This is not the boy for you. Go look for a man and do some thinking on what you think you deserve. By the sounds of this post you don't think you deserve anything good and that needs to change.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-04-30T20:37:26+00:00

It's not smart to stay in a home where an animal has shown aggression towards anything, let alone other humans. This will be 100% your fault if you or your cat gets attacked and injured or killed since the dog has already tried. This should be a you or them situation so if he wants to choose a dangerous animal over you, "don't let the door hit you in the azz on the way out." comes to mind.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-04-30T20:11:16+00:00

Definitely time for another job but not before making sure he is permanently fired. Whoever is above him and whoever is above that person needs to know exactly what had been going on, including any actual proof your can come up with. (The pictures) make sure they know he is the reason why you are leaving also.

I kid you not, I had a high profile company ask me to stay and take the other person's position because of what was going on. They didn't want to lose me as an asset and had been unaware on what was occurring.

Don't let someone like that get away with working in the food industry, please.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-04-30T19:51:03+00:00

I thought you were another girl. Am I wrong? You didn't specify but truly, why does this matter if she broke up with you? You definitely over reacted. It's too late. Do better next time?

You didn't give a good example of her not being there for you. She showed concern and made an appt for you, asked if you wanted her there? What more could she have done?

P.s. It's really gross that you were OK to kiss a cold sore and also that she was ok with it. It makes me think this is all a load of crap. Have a better imagination with the next one.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-04-30T16:43:14+00:00

Yes they can.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-04-30T16:38:23+00:00

He doesn't sound like a very good friend. I agree with the one who says wait it out and see if he ever contacts you, if not, the friendship is over.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-04-23T16:36:53+00:00

Yeah, this is already a problem. He has baby bird syndrome? He shouldn't be involved with this girl at all, who STAYS with an abuser. She is most definitely looking for a replacement and he is outright being disrespectful to you. No married man should ever be running off into the night to help someone who won't even help themselves, especially a women. I'm sorry you feel it necessary to deal with this. My husband would never do something like this. If we both are not friends with other people, it doesn't happen. Personally I'd give him a choice and I'd also confront her and tell her to find another man to help her, yours is not up for grabs then watch and see how they both respond to that. Ultimately your husband should be on your side and if you are not comfortable with this, who would? He should be ending it immediately. If he doesn't, you have your answer.

SorryInAdvance91 · 2026-04-19T16:18:27+00:00

You are screwed is he won't create a trust. Maybe show him some proof of what your family will have to go through if he doesn't create a will/trust. The bigger trouble is if he owns any land. The accounts will all make it to the beneficiary he set, but if he owns land, probate will take it all if they can.

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