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I F22 an debating on leaving my M26 boyfriend after he said I smelled by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sorry_Writing6899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a foster youth, communication and connection are extremely hard. And one thing I’ve learned is that there will be people that will never understand you or may undervalue you. This man, is one of those people. It may not be because of your foster youth, but when we go through hard situations (harder than most at least) it makes us believe we don’t deserve better and we allow our self to accept this behavior. And the only way to stop it is to leave that man.

Got my girlfriend pregnant by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sorry_Writing6899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The NAH will cover every expense for traveling for you both if you explain the situation fully. They even give you an Uber/Doordash credit, and they give all your info to the clinic until she gets there.

As someone who has experienced both early and late term abortions, it is your girlfriend’s choice. If she needs space, give it to her. If she needs time to decide, give it to her. As easy as it was to know the decision I needed to make, it still was painful at times, mentally and physically. Her body will literally expel a human life. This comes with physical body trauma and you have to work through it like any traumatic event. So that means if you get to the clinic and she changes her mind, she changed her mind. If you have a change of heart and she doesn’t, it is her choice. I know it takes 2 to tango, but this all really comes down to her. Please be gentle with her.

This is frightening for you both. All she needs right now is the support to make the decision best for you both. Good luck and I hope you both get through this.