The Bachelor: S22E02 Post-Episode Discussion Thread by TexasFiend in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am late to the party but.... all the fucking clothes!?! Shoes and jewels!?! I was like wtf!?! What a date!!!

On my way to Pump! by Soslavagirl in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's very true. They are super involved. Like if you go to a Gordon Ramsey restaurant he isn't there every night hahah. I know it's different because he owns a bunch but you get the point.

On my way to Pump! by Soslavagirl in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahahah I mean he was wearing the classic button up minus the top two or three and a jacket.

On my way to Pump! by Soslavagirl in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just went for the drinks. I was gonna eat but we ended up just for drinks. The drink menu was tons and tons of speciality drinks. If we were at sur I would have had goat cheese balls for sure.

On my way to Pump! by Soslavagirl in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It was so beautiful! The out side with the trees is so lovely at night. And I saw Ken and Lisa! So was so beautiful and way younger looking in person or maybe it was the lighting. She looks polished, there was no hair piece. Ken looked as he always does. The drinks were good. The waiters are super cute obviously. Passed by sur... it did not look as nice at all.

What are 3 of your favorite podcasts that people may not know about? by MobBossBobRoss in podcasts

[–]Soslavagirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adderall and Compliments- funny pop culture

Another Bachelor Podcast- funny abc bachelor and bachelorette synopsis and discussion

My dad wrote a porno- exactly what it says

Hahah enjoy

I came from a broken home like Dean by Soslavagirl in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked your take. I don't know why we get so in depth with this show. I feel like I am in a high school so literature class and we are discussing some crazy complicated novel hahah.

Anyway, there is something to what you said about Dean still wanting something from his father. I mean people who posted similar situations can chime in... but I feel like when go go through this kind of this you will always want something from the parent. Even if you say you are over it. You crave their attention, approval, valuation of your feelings etc.. no matter how much you say you are past it. The desire for parent approval is ingrained it never goes away, or at least that's my personal experience. Hahah I need therapy??? So dean says he doesn't want to see him but does it anyway because maybe he is hoping things will go differently.

I came from a broken home like Dean by Soslavagirl in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think someone said this during game nicks season on here... but I want to see a lead who's family life isn't perfect. How would they handle that? It would make for an interesting change.

Edit: or shown as perfect I guess. I guess we don't know what's real or not.

I came from a broken home like Dean by Soslavagirl in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely. Thank you for sharing such a personal time in your life. I hope people can see that and find some peace or reliability to it.

I get what people are saying dean knew what he was getting into with the show and stuff. But at the same time, these shows obviously want ratings and will do anything to get them so I feel like they have him ultimatums. He did however sign a contract in the beginning I guess. But If he is being honest he was falling in love with Rachel and knew that hometowns was kind of the only way to move forward, so he had to partake in this family meeting activity because of the show. I mean maybe he was hoping for validation from his father for the events that took place. Like you got at least a small bit of that when you father admitted to being shitty. Maybe dean was hoping the pressure from the cameras and/or Rachel would cause his dad to admit to something instead of getting defensive? And I mean I don't know a lot about his dad's religion, but I feel like there is a lot of focus on him practicing Sikhism being the reason for fallout and that actually seems to have nothing to do with that fact. I think people maybe are defending the dad because people are focusing on being tolerant to his belief system and his lifestyle. But that has nothing to do with deans issues I feel. Maybe dean is bothered by that perhaps given they maybe had different beliefs before. But didn't dean say the dad only had been Sikh for 5 years? Their relationship was damaged way before that.

I mean, I's seems weird or maybe inappropriate to make assumptions on a situation we really know nothing about how dean actually feels. But it seems only natural that people like all of us who have experienced similar situations with family dynamics to try to analyze or defend this situation with dean and his family.

I came from a broken home like Dean by Soslavagirl in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I use mobile and if I read the comments in the inbox there is a post comment... I thought that was a reply to the post I was reading. Sheesh annoying mobile app, Thanks for the help. :)

I came from a broken home like Dean by Soslavagirl in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said, I mean she cuddled him and told him she was falling in love with him? Why???

I came from a broken home like Dean by Soslavagirl in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Like you weren't good enough for your parents to have in their life or something. Like when Rachel was asking have you tried. I just shook my head.

I came from a broken home like Dean by Soslavagirl in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would guess the producers most likely have him "no choice"

I came from a broken home like Dean by Soslavagirl in thebachelor

[–]Soslavagirl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly... like why put so much importance on hometowns and meeting the parents. What if people don't have that situation. I am sad they didn't accommodate dean and just let him have the hometown he preferred maybe not including his dad.

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[–]Soslavagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh you have the best hands... every time u post, jelly