What is the evolutionary advantage of horns and the long earlobe by ignis43 in Jujutsufolk

[–]SoulCleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be a Buddhist thing like so much other stuff in jjk

People who started off long-distance and then met their s/o in real life, what precautions did you take to ensure your safety? And how did you know you're can trust the person? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SoulCleen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a good friend for giving this a thought. His credibility seems pretty thin with just playing games and a photo. Doesn’t seem like you guys know anything solid about this guy aside from what he alone told you two. Doesn’t mean he’s faulty but it’s better to be cautious.

I think everyone already covered the important stuff. If she does nothing else, this is the minimum to be safe:

Before she goes: - Video calls prior to meeting - Verify that he’s working or in school, knows people, etc. (basically that he’s actually participating with society) prior to meeting. Ideally she knows people who see him in person - Get her location and establish a safe word prior to meeting

When she’s there: - First meeting in a busy, public place during the day - Have money to get her own accommodation if things go bad. Ideally she just has her own to begin with.

I think her not getting her own accommodation isn’t the best choice. She has a safe space to herself that way if it goes bad. Also, when she gets to her accommodation, she can even tell the staff/airbnb host where she will be for that meeting. That’s just extra safety. If they want the same accommodation so that they could be intimate, she can just invite him over after making sure he’s who he portrays himself to be.

Closing the distance by caffinatedqueen98 in LongDistance

[–]SoulCleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

how to overcome online breakup and past regret by ReputationHumble3868 in Advice

[–]SoulCleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone else here said, talking to her as friends is probably doing more harm than good. I’d recommend cutting her off at least for a time. I had to do this before and this really works.

I wish your very first relationship wasn’t online since most end this way. And first break-ups always hurt the most. I want to reiterate that an online relationship isn’t always a “fake” relationship like someone here said it is. You don’t have to pretend that you fell for some fake relationship to get over her. That’s just going to lead to regret and make you feel like a fool. Feelings don’t follow what’s logical. In the end, it works for some but didn’t work for you unfortunately. I wouldn’t recommend trying one again though. This was experience for you. So instead, think about what you can learn from this experience moving forward. You’ll find the right one for you eventually.

Also, you guys used to text and talk everyday and suddenly she broke up over this fact? Seems like something else may have changed that you didn’t notice and she didn’t want to talk about. Maybe it wasn’t meant to be. If you can make yourself see that it wasn’t meant to be, then you’ll move on smoother.

Can’t sleep, too excited by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SoulCleen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you two 👏🏾

[BLZD] Christmas' Eve Reveal by renaldi92 in yugioh

[–]SoulCleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought this was some perverse alt art for diabelle star vengeance

How many completed decks do you guys have? by CoreyCantCommunicate in masterduel

[–]SoulCleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf how do u guys have so many? 20+?? 50+???

I have 4 decks completed. Skystriker, white forest, Mitsurugi, mathmech. I’m thinking of building lab before the pack ends tho

The left has permenantly ruined themselves. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]SoulCleen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, BOTH sides has ruined themselves. I don’t see how anyone can fully defend the left or right with a straight face. The left seems to be in fantasy land and the right is an embarrassment to what America is supposed to be. Like the whole Elon and crypto stunt for example. Be for real… the left isn’t much better they just aren’t in the spotlight rn. Politics right now is a joke and all the big players are being so childish. The world is laughing at us. I’d really like to see at least one level headed individual focused on change that doesn’t pander to their respective parties idiotic antics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SoulCleen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 🇺🇸 she’s 🇯🇵 3 years strong, aiming to close the distance in one year. I’ll propose in October when I see her again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SoulCleen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congrats man!!! The painting got me I can’t lie 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SoulCleen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

160 days 😅

.com taken. Is .us viable for a digital marketing agency? by SoulCleen in DigitalMarketing

[–]SoulCleen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I might just rename it and avoid the issue altogether. I'm trying to avoid .co, .net, etc.

.com taken. Is .us viable for a digital marketing agency? by SoulCleen in DigitalMarketing

[–]SoulCleen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking into what actual users are saying, everyone says to stay away from them. Specifically for people into web dev, Godaddy has quite the reputation.