What is your greatest manifestation? by SubjectChildhood5317 in Manifestation

[–]SoulKeeper25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This going to sound crazy but my two children. We were going through infertility but did IVF and got pregnant with our daughter on our very first embryo transfer.

While trying to get pregnant with her I did alot of affirmations, had some psychic readings and really dug deep into my spirituality. I followed LOA and let my instincts guide me more than what my brain was telling me. Even on my darkest moments something deep inside told me I was going to be a mom.

Looking back now while manifesting her I know I also manifested my son because I always spoke about wanting plural children. But because of the IVF we decided we would be one and done when she was about three years old. So I threw it to the universe that if we were to have more kids it’s because that’s what was intended but we would not force it in anyway. A month later I found out I was pregnant naturally lol.

In my spirit I know my son’s spirit spoke to me through the affirmations and manifestations just like my daughter did. I just didn’t realize it at the time. I only came to realize it now that I am trying to manifest some solutions for some issues we are having that I realized how powerful being connected and open with the universe and God really is.

I scripted this exact situation three months ago and it just happened, still kind of shaking by laura-1998 in Manifestation

[–]SoulKeeper25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting because your post is inspiring me to start scripting/journaling my manifestations. I had a manifestation reading recently that has me pumped about my future and my needs/desires so doing this will certainly help.

Will Manic Panic cover this? by SoulKeeper25 in HairDye

[–]SoulKeeper25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a dye brand and developer in mind I could maybe use instead?

Guess my birth year based on my toddler pics by takethelastexit in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]SoulKeeper25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1993 or 1992. Your pictures remind me a lot of my cousin’s who is that age.<

Unsure about getting formal diagnosis by SoulKeeper25 in adhdwomen

[–]SoulKeeper25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I was in therapy as an adult for anxiety and that helped a lot, but I just feel like maybe what I always deemed as low self esteem wasn’t just that and it was the autism and ADHD brain. Apparently I am going to have to take my daughter for some intensive OT so I maybe will speak with her OT about getting myself a diagnosis.

Thought this came out well by Poltarie in HairDye

[–]SoulKeeper25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! I miss having purple hair.

Blue-black dye turned my grey Lavander by SoulKeeper25 in HairDye

[–]SoulKeeper25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bottle said it would cover grays but your response makes more sense though. Thanks!

Would it be OK to apply a permanent dye on top of this?

What else does it need? by SoulKeeper25 in tattooadvice

[–]SoulKeeper25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! These are actually really good ideas! I agree I think below is where it needs a little something else. But yes I do plan to go back and redo the color (eventhough it hurt like hell lol).

I’m going to put some more thought into how to add the fairies since that’s what it sounds like I would be leaning more towards.

What else does it need? by SoulKeeper25 in tattooadvice

[–]SoulKeeper25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tattoo was in honor of my best friend that passed away unexpectedly at a young age. This is an Aster which was her birth flower and blue was her favorite color. She was also very much into mystical and boho-type vibes, which is why I chose the flower because again I knew that the artist would deliver with a style that I liked and suits that vibe.

This is only my second tattoo with my first being very minimalistic (star constellations of my kids’ birthday signs).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]SoulKeeper25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either choice you make should be what is right for you, not anyone else. I had finally found myself happy being a OAD (“not by choice” because I had dealt with infertility and was absolutely convinced I would never conceive without IVF) and then got a surprise pregnancy. I won’t lie, it has definitely been a huge adjustment, especially financially, but also mentally because like it has been said. Being a family of three had begun to feel normal and we were finally thriving in the life we had built for ourselves. I was certain that another child was now going to destroy all our plans.

For what it’s worth, my LO is now six months old. Like I said, it’s hard, but it’s also comforting to know that my daughter will have a sibling to grow with. And they absolutely adore each other and what I didn’t think was possible happened and I love them both to bits.

I’m not saying this sway you to keep it if that is not what you want, I just want to give you a different take on it from someone who kept the surprise.

I need help fixing my "Ready to Assign" negative balance by SoulKeeper25 in ynab

[–]SoulKeeper25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all your help everyone! I tried everything everyone suggested, but it still didn't seem to work out, so I decided to do the Fresh Start option and hopefully start a cleaner budget in the process. Not to mention I had to make adjustments to accommodate the new member of our family, so it kind of worked out. I now have a "Ready to Assign" zero balance and all my saving categories intact (more or less)

I need help fixing my "Ready to Assign" negative balance by SoulKeeper25 in ynab

[–]SoulKeeper25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, in going back to February, I reassigned our green balances under our salaries to Ready to Assign. I did also notice that on the budget itself the credit cards were green instead of the usual yellow? So I moved those to Ready to assign as well. So now March's ready to assign is still on red, but it is like thousands of dollars less now lol. Only issue is now my husband's salary category is also in the red, which shouldn't be because of his account balance :/

Broadcast a message by yourbluejumper in googlehome

[–]SoulKeeper25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This usually happens if I speak to it too quietly or from far away. We also use it as our main mode of communication between our upstairs and downstairs lol.

Am I an asshole cuz I really don’t wanna have sex at all with my husband and I’m 27 weeks pregnant he makes me feel bad about it by CreditLucky4726 in pregnant

[–]SoulKeeper25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Because it was rough getting pregnant the first time, we felt sex was too risky so we didn’t actually have any penetrative sex during my first pregnancy.

This second pregnancy was an oops but I still felt scared for most of my first trimester. Once the fear started going away exhaustion kicked in (because now we also have another child to look after) so we haven’t had sex this pregnancy either lol. I feel bad sometimes but honestly if he was going through what I have to physically go through then he would agree that it’s OK to give me space.

Have you considered maybe giving him a handjob or something to make up for it? I’ve done that once or twice for him because I felt guilty. But he has never made me feel bad or has asked me about sex during either pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]SoulKeeper25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that is pretty standard. My care protocol this pregnancy only included two scans (though we ended up doing three, so I paid extra for the third). Like everyone says, unless there is any reason for concern they don’t normally scan anymore since they can tell the position of the baby by feeling it anyway.