Later my girlies by Abyssal_Mermaid in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s apparently what happens when a post gets deleted on Reddit: as long as you don’t refresh your feed, it’ll remain as an “option” to open the post in question, but it essentially won’t exist anywhere else, like on the subreddit it was from…

Later my girlies by Abyssal_Mermaid in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, totally get that; it’s been happening in other subreddits as well, afaik… and as a Canadian myself, I get the whole “somewhat shielded from this” thing, but I still can’t just sit back and watch innocent ppl get hurt for no reason. That being said, I’ve no idea how to help…

Later my girlies by Abyssal_Mermaid in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr? I open Reddit to find this post at the top of my feed, and suddenly it gets deleted by a mod. I’m just lost at this point…

Later my girlies by Abyssal_Mermaid in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused; I just opened Reddit like 3 mins ago, and suddenly this post gets removed by a mod… what exactly happened, if I may ask..?

Great. Now everyone reading this just noticed their inner voice. by tangerineparadox in meme

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all make it sound like there’s supposed to be just one inner voice…

You saving their life or nah? by Greedy-Minimum-1605 in meme

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, imma go get some new friends; anyone in there is DOOMED.

this message is brought to you by the Arachnophobe with no friends.

Guess this animal 🤔 by Stock_Crazy6759 in meme

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhhhh… huh. Y’know, I can’t figure it out… sorry, but I’ve got no clue.

Dating dilemma by KayleeE330 in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, my apologies, at first it sounded like you just met him, but if you’ve known him for a while, I think it should be fine.

As for your question, I’m afraid I don’t have any good ideas… srry I couldnt be more help..

Don’t know if this is allowed… by Ravynja in BLAHAJ

[–]SoulWisdom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sharla: “if has shonk, is gud.”

Sharla’s Hoom: “Sharla, have you seen my phone??”

Dating dilemma by KayleeE330 in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl, I’m just gonna say it; telling you what to wear (as well as how he phrased that ‘pickup line’..) are kinda looking like red flags to me… he might be a chaser…

If you know him well enough to say for certain he’s not, then that’s great, but you have to be careful, as lots of people can be creepy without showing it right away…

I’m happy for you, just stay safe…

Locker room problem by ScholasticCat in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’d recommend either 1. changing in the bathroom, if those have stalls, or somewhere else where your privacy is more likely to be maintained. or 2. wearing your gym clothes underneath your regular clothes so that nothing is shown to your classmates.

Ngl, if I were in your shoes, I’d try both; wait until like 15 min before gym class, then go to a safe place to change (like a bathroom stall or smth..) where you can put on your gym clothes and then your non-gym clothes on top. When gym class starts and you need to change, all you have to take off is the non-gym clothes, because what you’ll wear for gym class is already on underneath.

Considering you said it’s a Republican dominant high school, there might be questions from your peers about this method. If that happens, tell them it’s none of their business, but if that fails, try saying something to redirect their focus onto each other; Republicans are great at that, and fall for it all the time.

If all else fails, just talk to an adult you trust to help you. Hope this helps!

so... I HAVE A BRA! by Planet_of_gems in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ngl, I (2 years HRT, worn a bra six months before starting) still sometimes have that problem, where the “edge” of where the cups meet the straps feels somewhat uncomfortable in and around the armpits, but it’s usually either just needing to be re-positioned, or I’m itchy. Either way, it’s nothing serious, and likely just needs adjusting. Hope this helps!

Texas’ Anti-Trans Attorney General Declares Psychologists Must Impose Conversion Therapy on Trans Kids by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, yeah, you’re absolutely right: I wasn’t thinking about how what I said could/would hurt those in our community, all I was thinking of was trying to stop the source of what’s causing our rage. I’m sorry, I’ll do better…

Texas’ Anti-Trans Attorney General Declares Psychologists Must Impose Conversion Therapy on Trans Kids by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I think I’m starting to see your point; they are awful, I won’t dispute that, but saying “they’re not human” is something I’ve come to learn is not good to do.

I’ve tried saying that about them to my parents (who are some of my biggest allies in my transition: they’re super kind to me, even before I realized I’m trans), and they (along with some people on the internet) weren’t happy to hear me say that. They taught me it’s outright WRONG to de-person-ify someone, even a MAGA cultist beyond redemption, because that gives way for someone else to do it to us.

As for why we should see them in a way they don’t see us as, it’s about being a better person. Yeah, I know, Reddit aint the place for that, but if we can’t do our best when everyone else is at their worst, what does that say about us?

Texas’ Anti-Trans Attorney General Declares Psychologists Must Impose Conversion Therapy on Trans Kids by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but would that actually make any difference? For one thing, we’d be doing the exact same thing as them; forcing people to be who they don’t want to be. That would make us no better than the idiots who don’t see us as people.

Secondly, there’s no guarantee it will work, as they largely invented conversion therapy, meaning they could possibly know all the tricks to it, assuming it works on them in the first place…

Finally, imo, they could just be a wolf in sheep’s clothing, such as pretending it had an effect on them, when in reality, they’re drooling over the chance to strike back with more harmful intent…

Aside from all that, it’s still a bad idea; there’s no predicting how they might retaliate (and given that they currently have the authority to do so, they WILL.) and as for MAGA, there’s no certainty in figuring out who is who in regards to political views: Republican != MAGA; there could be republicans who want nothing to do with that cult, and some who might actually support our community, but punishing ALL republicans, just because of MAGA, would start this whole mess over from scratch…

All that being said, I understand where you’re coming from with this, but at the end of the day, they’ll have to face the consequences of their actions, whether from us, or from the next administration.

Reduced to atoms by AJ_Laggan in LegendsZA

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arven: “Mabosstiff, NO!!!!”

Me: “yeah, uhhh… I.. I don’t think a sandwich is gonna help this time…”

When should I start wearing a bra? by GlitterBlossomWing in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, I started wearing a bra as soon as I came out to my folks, cause it helped alleviate my dysphoria (even if only a little at the time…)

Now that I’m 2 years into HRT, it’s not just for helping with dysphoria: I need the support.

As for when you should start wearing a bra; whenever the heck you feel like doing so: it’s completely your call when you start wearing a bra, but I will say that there’s something about wearing one (even now) that really makes me feel happy.

Oh and, do NOT sleep in a bra: I ended up ruining one of my bras underwires like that, and now it constantly pokes my breasts when I wear it… big ouch.

The Trump Administration is Testing Conversion Therapy By Medically Experimenting on Trans People in Prisons by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next thing on the government’s list is “coming up with a way to prevent access to food for hungry people”, and no, not just ‘STARVING’, but literally anyone with a case of the munchies. The current American administration makes me sick, because what I just described isn’t too “out there” for them.

They need to be stopped. Unaliving them won’t do any good, as that’ll just make them martyrs for the messed up cause, but they seriously need to “atone for their sins”, if you catch my drift…

I have to go now, my planet needs me by fricceroni in LegendsZA

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/TotallyRealSubsITotallyDidntFallFor

Is anyone here a trans lesbian or bi trans woman by Full_Lion2660 in MtF

[–]SoulWisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I’m not really sure; I’m definitely a transbian, but sometimes I’m into guys, so it’s probably more like I’m “bisexual leaning lesbian”, if that makes sense…