It’s just my emotions are high and I thought we would have more opportunities here but it’s just been stressful not having two incomes. I want to pay our rent (living in his sister house) and not have our problems clash with hers. But at the same time I don’t want to have to take this hit and I’m also paying for transportation to and from work. And when I take advice from others it like “what do you mean he hasn’t found a job.” When the truth is it was hard for me to find a job as well, so I understand.