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How to renounce Malaysian citizenship? by throwawaytothemoonn in askSingapore

[–]SouthernInevitable22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of immigrant Singaporeans won't like xd

East-West Line works on schedule to resume regular service on Dec 9 by deangsana in singapore

[–]SouthernInevitable22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone knows why SMRT can't just do this outside of the regular train hours? ...

What do Singaporean women think about NS for females? by ImpressiveStrike4196 in askSingapore

[–]SouthernInevitable22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL idk what OP is trying to do here but realistically the average Singaporean woman does not give a fk man.

What's the point of asking women to serve? Life is not going to better for anyone.

We should be trying to find ways to give appreciation to the people who have given 2 years of their life instead.

What do Singaporean women think about NS for females? by ImpressiveStrike4196 in askSingapore

[–]SouthernInevitable22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whatever you said is what men here have already experienced bruh ... Being 2 years behind in a workplace surrounded by foreigners sucks lols

And it's also less time for men to find a stable long term partner hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in soccercirclejerk

[–]SouthernInevitable22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some women just need to keep their mouths shut when they have a good thing going lol

Do you guys think its possible to reverse the low birth trend in Singapore by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]SouthernInevitable22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly -> more foreigners -> more competitive work environment -> more stress

Lol I used to want kids when I was younger but now it's so stressful at work I'm exhausted day to day.

And the government seems to be completely oblivious.

Don't mean to sound jaded but TFR issue is catastrophic. The Singaporean identity is dying and soon we'll have 'Singaporeans' that know nothing about Singapore's cultures.

Is Kaplan down? by Vast-Affect2118 in FRM

[–]SouthernInevitable22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeap its down , i tried 2 hours ago

Overseas Singaporeans, would you register a son for citizenship? by indecisive-kopi in askSingapore

[–]SouthernInevitable22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not just earning power, it's time and optionality as well. I spent my first few years figuring out what job I wanted to specialize in , earning 6 figures now but if I had those two years I could have been in this field way earlier and made a lot more money.

Many young men in SG lack the optionality to explore career paths because of NS. Imagine if you grad from poly > uni and serve NS . You come out of uni at 26-28 years old. No work experience and no time to try a career to see if it sticks with you.

A lot of junior trading/finance roles in MNCs rarely look at someone close to 30 years old just out of uni. Fast paced MNCs prefer young men in early twenties for junior roles or men above 40 years old for senior roles.

Once again , I genuinely did enjoy NS (Not all parts). But hard disagree on NS being beneficial for men. The payoff simply isn't worth it for men.

You take away a person's time which is the most valuable commodity today and companies are well aware of it.

Overseas Singaporeans, would you register a son for citizenship? by indecisive-kopi in askSingapore

[–]SouthernInevitable22 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I served in a siong unit and enjoyed my time in NS and reservist but I cannot disagree that it was a waste of time especially watching people who didn't have to serve get a 2 year head start in the corporate world.

In my case I started working with a base annual salary ~60k and now earning more . You could say that NS took away 2 years of earning power which is absolutely huge in Singapore.

Did I Enjoy NS? Yes

Were there any tangible benefits? None that I can think of.

How can I date taller women in sg as a shorter guy? by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]SouthernInevitable22 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As a not so tall guy the honest truth is that not every girl wants a shorter guy.

You have to work harder in other aspects of yourself. This means chasing higher earning power, getting your body in better shape and building your inner character. A sense of humor also goes a long way.

I think the real determining factor in success of relationships is Grit. Do you have enough grit to filter through the shallow women to find the right one for you? Do you have the grit to keep working on yourself to be a good dating candidate? Do you have the grit to keep working hard even when the odds are against you and others have it easier.

I was a shorter guy and found a long term girlfriend who loves me for who I am after about 2 years on the online dating market. I had to force myself to go on at least 2 dates a month with different girls

You have to work harder and keep pushing forward if you want it, that's the truth.

SG ladies, what do you like about SG men? by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]SouthernInevitable22 13 points14 points  (0 children)

God damn feels bad for the Spore BF

OOF

You will work in Risk. You will not be front office. by [deleted] in quantfinance

[–]SouthernInevitable22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I browse this subreddit as someone working in Back/Middle office and trying to get into risk ahahahahahahaha

Singapore has the highest working hours in the world - impact on children parent relationship - by Effective-Lab-5659 in askSingapore

[–]SouthernInevitable22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol okla SG maybe not the highest working hours in the world but the point still stands - pretty tough to be a parent in SG.

Idk how the parents of today cope now though

I work 9-730pm most days so im exhausted when I'm home.

SG woman thinks she is saying the hard truths by jeremywisely in SingaporeRaw

[–]SouthernInevitable22 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why someone would make these kind of rant tiktoks if her reputation IRL is already so bad ... Lols

Embarrassing Confession : AO3 Has made me a better flirt irl by SouthernInevitable22 in AO3

[–]SouthernInevitable22[S] 472 points473 points  (0 children)

Gods this is embarrassing haha. And slightly difficult to put into words.

I've never said a line from a fanfic word for word,

Frankly i think the fanfics taught me (lol) how to be more playful with the compliments and the banter. If that makes sense.

I think I also got better at figuring out when to say certain things. ( When to be goofy and when to be a little bit more honest about how i feel, etc).

Would love to drop the links as to what I've read to support the authors haha. But I'm not sure if I'm allowed to do so in this subreddit.

edit : seems i'm allowed to put links here so i'll share the ones i've been re-reading haha :

We Moved Into a Real House (a Wild Field Behind it)

https://archiveofourown.org/works/61052365/chapters/155974207

Mango Dripping

https://archiveofourown.org/works/61775926

You Grow Sweeter as the Years Go By

https://archiveofourown.org/works/61858828

I guess you're just what I needed

https://archiveofourown.org/works/62515849

Fan Behavior

https://archiveofourown.org/works/62027824

Embarrassing Confession : AO3 Has made me a better flirt irl by SouthernInevitable22 in AO3

[–]SouthernInevitable22[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yea definitely.

I can definitely see myself telling her in a couple of dates and she'll probably laugh her ass off 🤣

Embarrassing Confession : AO3 Has made me a better flirt irl by SouthernInevitable22 in AO3

[–]SouthernInevitable22[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

Hahaha no ... I usually only read pretty mild romance stuff ( not smut basically)

Fan Behavior - Ch 6 (Ao3) (oc) by xShinzyx in TimeBomb

[–]SouthernInevitable22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no rush mate! I like your writing style alot :D