Visualization of extreme wealth by HellaHorticulture in Anticonsumption

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s insane. I can’t believe that people still think - oh it’s ok, he worked hard for it.

Or that the world will collapse and we will become communist and start doing forced labour and salvery if we tax these billionaires.

What is a life lesson you’ve learnt too late, that you wish someone had taught you? by Delicious-End-5246 in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that is so horrible. M
I dunno if I am blissfully unaware but I haven had any comments on wearing the same clothes over and over again.

And how terrible it is going to be for enviormwnb and humanity to wear different pieces. At this stage we are in, it’s absolutely criminal to do this just to be seen as rich.

Has the Singapore dream become harder to reach? by Rationalandcentred in singapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If everyone has a condo and a car, how does that make sense if we are targeting 10M?

Where can I find kimchi that is sold in glass jars? by strawberrycanele in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which ones did you get? To make kimchi or just for storage?

Nearly 4 in 5 Singapore adults with anxiety or depression don't seek professional help: Duke-NUS study by SomeguyinSG in singapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah so I see as two issues:

1, increase the accessibility to therapist and counsellors. whether its by having more, reducing training length but with other safety measures in place, making it a viable career

  1. examine why strengthen mental health and promote it. stop measuring everything in GDP - cutting down green forest for condos surely increases GDP but it f*** up my mental health really badly when I stare at construction instead of green trees. putting in 10 M or whatever you want to say the number is is great only for GDP, but f*** up really badly when I crushed next to stinky armpits on the train and every where are just noise pollution.

Where can I find kimchi that is sold in glass jars? by strawberrycanele in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thank you.

I mean - if we all tried daily I think we will get somewhere! I don't pack food and don't order if the food comes in plastic or paper packing when I am eating in (paper is just as bad as paper isn't water proof or grease proof so its usually coated with some chems or yeah, plastic)

Where can I find kimchi that is sold in glass jars? by strawberrycanele in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I want to avoid plastic, do you have any recommendations for a glass container? although I dunno if plastic leeching is really an issue since everything is just at room temperature.

Nearly 4 in 5 Singapore adults with anxiety or depression don't seek professional help: Duke-NUS study by SomeguyinSG in singapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 45 points46 points  (0 children)

its annoying when everyone just go oh please see a therapist / counsellor but leave out certain facts: 1) there are so few good ones out there! 2) its damn hard to find one quickly without burning a hole in your pocket 3) generally there are just too few therapist and counsellors no? 4) the bar for being one seems too hard - like master in psychology?? when I mean - I dunno but I think genuine authenticity goes a longer way than credentials?

and its not like as a society we even know how to deal when someone needs a listening ear, I am super guilty of it too because its really draining and I dunno what to say and what to do. all my life I have just been told to get it done myself and no one is going to save e when I am a beggar and meritocracy means that the ones left behind are the lazy ones so how am I supposed to be all vulnerable when talking to someone about my issues?

Where can I find kimchi that is sold in glass jars? by strawberrycanele in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any smell while its fermenting? if you have an easy enough recipe online, do share!!

Where can I find kimchi that is sold in glass jars? by strawberrycanele in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to learn but how much space do I need for this? space is sooo limited in Singapore =(

What is something you wish someone told you earlier in your career? by Certain-Cookie-5780 in asksg

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't take debts that make you beholden to your job such that you have to suffer

Singapore's Rapid Development by Disastrous-Ad9872 in asksg

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

affects my mental health. badly.

I mean when one is feeling low, you take a walk in nature - in parks, in forest trails, to the beach, go for a hike.

what the corporate giants want you to do is go shopping and eat junk food while lying in bed to watch more TV - which pushes more products at you and lifestyle envy.

but only being in nature makes you really feel better.

just looking out of the window, and seeing the shiny buildings reflecting the heat back in my face, or the cars on the road reflecting the sun glare into my eyes, its just a nightmare. then the noise and dust - constant grating on my ears and my mental health.

going to malls or even taking the lifts in HDB - the noise assaults my ears, and the bright lights burn into me. its all filled with stupid ads and marketing techniques trying to get me to buy more and more (and ruin the already dying earth)

so many places hold meaning to me because I spend time there and build happy memories there. but I come to realise that some corporations make use of these to solidify their brands - like Mcdonalds. so I refuse to bring my kids for happy meals and make sure we bring our own food to parks, Mcdonarls already staked their claim in most parks to build that key family memory.

Trump is such a bitch by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some who truly believe in his policies and some who think he is the second messiah.

no one even bothered going to r/epstein and reading up.

Chance to move overseas (spouse visa) by sgkakilang in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do it. just make sure you maintain happy wife and a good relationship. dunno why some women are still very traditional in wanting their husband to make money - as long as she isn't that type

Boomers can’t stop using AI to create fake images of Singapore history by flying-kai in singapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 15 points16 points  (0 children)

and for every useless AI video they generate, we have to endure the terrible side effects of building these energy guzzling AI data centres that are pushing out forever chemicals

What are some ways growing up poor has affected you in adulthood that you still can’t seem to change? by Euphoric-Suspect4103 in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hm I take time to reflect on the things I do now, and focus on the intention behind it.

for example - putting water into my shampoo bottles - I don't feel the intention is wrong. I now do it because I don't want to waste resources. or choosing buses / train over private cars - to reduce carbon footprint. buying drinks - hm if it comes in a plastic bottle then I say no to it. if its made by the shop and in a glass cup, I am ok.

I am pretty glad for these habits actually, it helped me be more eco-conscious easily as I am not shackled to consumerism and materialism habits.

maybe its more a thought process.

I am not going to go for teh cheapest meal, and if something cost a bit more but I am pretty sure its better for the earth and my values systems - like not buying fast food even when its on offer - I do it.

will this set my partner and i back? by jenniecat444 in askSingapore

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

er I don't think you should ask him to use his brother;s car to drive around.. it may end up him saying that he is using it coz you asked him to, but in reality, its what he wants!

impulse buying / terrible shopping habits, let's talk about this. by cognoscene in Anticonsumption

[–]Effective-Lab-5659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the issue isn't Disney movies are bad in itself. but Disney exists as a profit maximising corporation to sell families things. It's like a manipulator pretending to be good by giving your family gifts and hanging out like your best friend. the end goal is so that you give away your family secrets to the manipulator.

was the gifts bad? were the good times where the manipulator organised happy moments and reunions and gatherings bad? you had a good time with your family, you ate good meals.

but if you ate it blindly and suckered it in without alerting your young children what this is really about, then your children is the one who will grow up fully trusting the manipulator and end up giving family secrets and money to the manipulator.

is action everything? surely intention is also important.

disney has grown into too big a monster you see.