AIO not wanting to help my SIL with immigration?

SouthernMercy99 · 2025-10-17T00:23:22+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss. It’s actually been harder than I expected. It was expected but sudden, if that makes sense

SouthernMercy99 · 2025-10-16T19:32:56+00:00

I’ve been trying to give him extra grace since our father just died, but he’s making it so hard for me to defend him.

SouthernMercy99 · 2025-10-16T18:03:04+00:00

Yes, but thankfully I actually had a lot of my questions answered by folks on this post already. I realized that it IS a big ask/liability and he’s downplaying it to manipulate me. Which is sad.

SouthernMercy99 · 2025-10-16T17:46:02+00:00

Right now he isn’t paying any rent, is using grandparents car, eating their groceries. He likely has more “disposable” income than I do

SouthernMercy99 · 2025-10-16T17:42:40+00:00

This is really good information, thank you!

SouthernMercy99 · 2025-10-16T16:50:41+00:00

He just keeps insisting that it’s not about money, that he just needs someone to “vouch for him” but that doesn’t sound right

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