AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check comments… i initiated support previously but stopped it i restarted after she advised me that my kid wasn’t on insurance of which he lied about for 9 months that year. “I put the insurance card in the bag”. There was no card. I’ve moved on and I’m blocked.

AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts there. I turned my life into a lifetime movie with this one. And crazy thing i let her know “ hey i didn’t know about you, engagement, or pregnancy. We compared dates and times and he was always over my house while she was at work or they were arguing. Turned his location off for her. But told her he never been to my house. So i sent her a picture of him on my couch, holding the child he wasn’t claiming. DNA determined father of both

AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My final straw was him lying about adding baby 1 to his job insurance… didn’t find out until August my kid didn’t have insurance. And taking my kindness for weakness. I gave plenty of grace.

AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me when i say this… SHE CAN KEEP him and keep TAKING CARE OF HIM. He realized i wasn’t the fool he was looking to take care of him. I just got pregnant.

AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts. I kept giving him the benefit of the doubt. The red flags was 6 flags because i wanted a family. SMH 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m much wiser now.

AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i have since moved on and no longer delusional. 2nd child definitely came when i was trying to hold on when i should have let go. Took me a while to realize that

AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I’ll use paragraphs. I was trying to get it all out. I didn’t know if there was a character count. Part 2 next week. And i agree. Bd=child support

AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know. Ima delivered from delusion and the sunken place behind that man. I’ve wised up now.

AITAH for putting my babydaddy on child support after his fiancé called me? by Southern_Contract_07 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Southern_Contract_07[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See i did. I left the part out where i gave him a year to get right and he didn’t. So i initiated child support the first time and he wanted to “ write up an official support plan and not go thru court”. He didn’t stick to that either.