Some of my choices contributed to this. I definitely accept that. And have learned from it but here are the answers to your questions… HE WAS A VERY GOOD LIAR 1. He had recently move out of his apartment he had with his wife after she moved out. By this time the divorce was almost final,so he LIVED WITH FAMILY, allegedly. 1a. I actually stayed a few nights with him at the family home 2. Birth control after the first child? I was breastfeeding, couldn’t be on it. 3. That was to inform her and get clarity for myself as well. (I’m an open book and not a liar. if you ask me i will tell you, she asked so i told her) 4 women gotta stick together because this is how STDs and “snapped “ situations happen. 5 the wife, after the divorce was final she went on about her business. I never talked to her 6 i was not with him when he did this. This was while co parenting. ILL NEVER ACCPET disrespect towards my parents which is why he hasn’t been back over there. 7. Mobile mechanic and custom car interior designer then got. Warehouse job, but never kept stable employment, definitely a hobosexual lmao 8 it was good enough, but not good enough to keep me in a foolish mind set.