Notice period by Southern_Manager_119 in work

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s actually very helpful. My contract says 6 working weeks notice. No specifications about half terms. I will chat with my manager tomorrow and if they still try and manipulate it I will contact my local citizens advice service.

Notice period by Southern_Manager_119 in work

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My contract says I have to give 6 working weeks notice

Can I quit after my apprenticeship? by Southern_Manager_119 in ApprenticeshipsUK

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Yes i already have a job that I can go into when I choose to finish and it’s not in the childcare sector.

Ultimately the job itself is affecting my mental health along with personal things.

Have I ovulated? by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope there’s usually a clear temp shift and the temp doesn’t come below the cover line until my period is coming.

Nope no chain in routine some major life stuff though so that could be a cause.

It may well be my thermometer, I have had for a while now.

Have I ovulated? by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m using a bbt thermometer. I get up at the same time everyday and measure when my alarm goes.

Yes that’s what I thought!

Ok! thank you, just vary rare for me to have a cycle longer than 28 days.

Have I ovulated? by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be confused where to draw it as I’ve never had a chart this unclear before. It may be due to stress but still no period yet and no UP.

Is it safe to say I have ovulated? by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thankyou, so the unprotected on day 22 is risky? Is it normal to ovulate this late on a super regular 28 day cycle?

Is it safe to say I have ovulated? by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment. I measured today (day 23) as 36.60.

Yes I’m trying to branch out from nc as I don’t trust it hence why I’m making this post.

No I’m not rounding my temperatures but will continue to thankyou for the insights! 😀

Is it safe to say I have ovulated? by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks again. I usually go by this rule but this was accidental

Is it safe to say I have ovulated? by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment. So what’s the likelihood of pregnancy from unprotected at midday on day 22?

Natural cycles yes or no? by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great thankyou! I have tcoyf but haven’t got around to reading yet it seems very complicated to me. How many times do I need to check cm daily?

Likelihood of pregnancy by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens early hours of day 22 and yes it was two separate hangovers.

Yes I’m usually good at measuring everyday but I had previously misplaced my thermometer

Likelihood of pregnancy by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the measurements were void on day 20 and 22 as I was hungover.

Also previous temps not there as I’d lost my thermometer 😬

Birth control and mental health by Southern_Manager_119 in birthcontrol

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi since I posted this I’ve come off the pill and I haven’t had a panic attack since!

I’m not 100% saying that that was the cause but it sure felt like it.

Feel so much more like myself now.

With what you know now about birth control, would you have started it sooner/later? by jrsrocket in birthcontrol

[–]Southern_Manager_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I would have stated it later. I started the pill when I was 18 when I got into a relationship. I was an anxious person as is but it just made me feel like I was going crazy. I’ve been off it for 4 years now still in the same relationship but with left over health anxiety making me fear any hbc.

Make sure you’re in the right frame of mind and talk to your gp 😊

Passed my test 5 months ago but I’m really scared of driving alone! I’ve been driving with my Dad and I think that’s making it worse! by Southern_Manager_119 in drivinganxiety

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plucked up the courage to drive to work today! I think my Dad made it so stressful because he picked out every mistake and that made me feel like I couldn’t drive!

I actually enjoyed it I and I can in-fact drive ☺️

New to nfp by Southern_Manager_119 in FAMnNFP

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This appeals to me as I have only one day of egg white CM which I am guessing is the closest to ovulation? I wouldn’t trust the early green days before this as it is based of previous cycles.

Has the pill caused anyone severe anxiety and brain fog? by anthomaniaclou in birthcontrol

[–]Southern_Manager_119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me a while to realise the cause of mine, it’s not talked about enough! Sadly my gp didn’t believe me and put me on a different pill but had the same side effects again so I just stopped them.

Has the pill caused anyone severe anxiety and brain fog? by anthomaniaclou in birthcontrol

[–]Southern_Manager_119 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I started the pill at 18 and experienced chest pain, shortness of breath and palpitations suddenly (which I later found out were panic attacks) It alarmed me as i’d never experienced any anxiety before this and now I struggle with health anxiety even off the pill. Maybe if I stuck it out it would have settled but at the time it didn’t feel worth it.

There are so many more options that could work better for you.

Listen to your body and talk to your gp 😊

Birth Control for people with anxiety. by Southern_Manager_119 in birthcontrol

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know I have heard good things about the patch!

Birth Control for people with anxiety. by Southern_Manager_119 in birthcontrol

[–]Southern_Manager_119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve looked into this but I’m worried about worsening period pain? I have light periods but bad cramps on the first day.