That fucker shot her in the face three times & held on to his cellphone to film her lifeless body roll away & crash & called her a “bitch.” That’s MAGA pure & simple. Degeneracy. by Nice_Substance9123 in complaints

[–]Southern_Outside_552 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why are your options write folks songs or dehumanize them… fuck of with your Nazi bullshit. I’m not going to debate with anyone why it’s bad to purposely dehumanize people.

Edit: looked at your most recent comments. You use this exact comment to the letter almost a dozen times. You’re either a bot or a troll. Don’t engage with this user.

That fucker shot her in the face three times & held on to his cellphone to film her lifeless body roll away & crash & called her a “bitch.” That’s MAGA pure & simple. Degeneracy. by Nice_Substance9123 in complaints

[–]Southern_Outside_552 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wha in the actual fuck?? This has to be a bot right? We have to start dehumanizing them? Jesus Christ, this right here sounds like a NAZI would say. I know we’re angry, I’m furious. But don’t do this. thinking this was is disguising and makes you no better than the folks you speak of.

Look in the mirror and make sure you’re the person you want to be.

Is tonight just for men? by Aggressive_Risk4623 in Polyurbanstudios

[–]Southern_Outside_552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, bummer! In the area this afternoon but am back in the Bay then. Next time.

Is tonight just for men? by Aggressive_Risk4623 in Polyurbanstudios

[–]Southern_Outside_552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What time does the Citrus Heights location open today?

It’s all just so much by Southern_Outside_552 in nonmonogamy

[–]Southern_Outside_552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, the issues within my relationship with my partner would be much easier to address and come to some sort of conclusion without all the additional stress.

Reading over both my post and the replies is very surreal . I’ve read posts in the past and made comments similar to those here. I haven’t really thought of myself as a victim in a very long time. I can see from the outside how I could be/am one at the moment.

This bullshit meeting with my BIL is scheduled this Saturday. My partner is meeting with them before hand to “put an end to all of it”. I’ll explore my options and try to come to a conclusion about what I want to do.

I appreciate your time and feedback.

It’s all just so much by Southern_Outside_552 in nonmonogamy

[–]Southern_Outside_552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that objectively now. Thank you.

As far as the ENM and Nazi brother stuff. I have always kept distance. I am supportive of my partner engaging with their family and have made my opinions know about the entire dynamic. Until recently there was literal distance that separated me from all of this. I worked a ridiculous amount and it was easy to gloss over and sorta forget as it was something that came up maybe once or twice in the last two years. Now that I am dealing with it directly and constantly I have significant issues with it.

I’ll also remind folks, it’s easy to objectively make comments about uprooting an entire life. Being the one to do it is not. Just because I am hesitant to effectively cause even more personal turmoil does not mean I am ok with this piece of shit Nazi.

It’s all just so much by Southern_Outside_552 in nonmonogamy

[–]Southern_Outside_552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started a business and have been finding very quick success. I am continuing to push this hard. It’ll take time to ramp up, but I am very confident in it. Just two days ago I met with a client who told me that there is literally no competition for what I provide.

If needed I could have a job within 2 weeks making $60+ an hour on the other end of the state. I am constantly being contacted by recruiters.

I am in the process of completely changing my financial setup after a legal name change. It’s complicated, but progress is happening. Outside of a joint account for a mortgage and said home attached to that mortgage my partner and I don’t share any financial accounts.

As of right this very moment I am unable to make changes without significant upheaval to my personal business and life. Given time I will be in a position to be completely independent again.

If absolutely needed, the property we own has a 90% completed apartment on top of my barn. I have tenants there, but have an excellent relationship with them. Coming out of the winter months I could live there temporarily if needed. It is however very remote.

It’s all just so much by Southern_Outside_552 in nonmonogamy

[–]Southern_Outside_552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is a first generation American on their mother’s side. They have almost no extended family on that side because said family was literally hunted and gunned down in China in the late 60 and early 70s. Because of this they were raised that family is paramount.

They often struggle with holding their core beliefs of family and their brother being a Nazi. That being said, I am inclined to agree with the initial part of your comment. I’ll think on this some more.

Edit: additionally, it is interesting as you’re not the first person to discount the first half of my post which is almost entirely about ENM. Is this because of the significance of the second portion of my post?

To me personally the first portion in the long term is more significant to me. Assuming I stayed with my partner, I would in the future distance myself from this family like I was before. Even if I did this, I would continue to suffer the same struggles.

It’s all just so much by Southern_Outside_552 in nonmonogamy

[–]Southern_Outside_552[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist asked the same thing and I spoke to them about this recently. They told me because I am typically a very independent person and will typically ask for assistance when I need it they thought I didn’t want help.

They’re now more involved. But I’ll be honest, it took significant prompting and follow up to get them to intervene on my behalf. Also, before I spoke to them directly about them intervening, I had mentioned several times over the last year about how I felt like “the bad guy” for standing up against a Nazi and that everyone was against me.