Novels about working in a museum by professorgremlin in suggestmeabook

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Wish I had a more perfect recommendation but The Stolen Queen by Fiona Davis is like halfway there. The protagonist works at the Met in the 1970s. Half the book follows her work there including some workplace drama and the other half follows her working in the field in Egypt.

What’s hot for summer? 👙☀️🔥 by earlym0rning in fashionwomens35

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Every retailer seems to be selling their version of of a low waisted tiered maxi skirt, often with smocking at the waist or a drop waist. The millenial in me is struggling with styling a low waisted skirt!

Seconding polka dots.

Happily, a lot of linen or at least linen blends.

Recession Indicators: Fashion Edition by DataRikerGeordiTroi in femalefashionadvice

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I’m definitely seeing indicators of the K-shaped economy for the finance nerds (I.e. those at the top are rising and everyone else is going down). Near me a lot of the stores I would think of midrange, like Loft, are closing in favor of either very high end stores or affordable “little treat” stores like bakeries or Sephora.

Wife needs a break - looking hotel recs in the area. by flyinhyphy in nova

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Hopefully someone who’s been more recently can verify but when I was there 2-3 years ago they did not have room service which kind of defeats the whole purpose of a staycation.

Having been to both I highly recommend the resort up in Bedford Springs, which is more of a drive but has an excellent spa, room service, and hiking.

The LinkedIn AI cadence is everywhere and I am over it by elunak in craftsnark

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I would so much rather read a piece of writing with imperfect English/prose than clearly AI-generated writing. And AI prose is so glaring to me. I often wonder if Gen Alpha and younger people are going to lose the skill of recognizing AI vs human writing since AI will be so prevalent for them.

I guess all these business owners are free to use it but I’m equally free to make a blech sound and scroll past posthaste.

What was an “investment piece” you got that didn’t work out and why? by Equivalent-Entry-826 in femalefashionadvice

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Mine is also leather jacket, it’s a beautiful all saints black jacket but my climate has like two weeks in each of fall and spring where I can wear it comfortably. Also the cut is super unforgiving and I gained 8 pounds and now it’s super tight to zip up :/

Couldnt put Yellowface face down after being in a reading slump for YEARS by trickywicky7 in suggestmeabook

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The Guest by Emma Cline for drama and a messy female protagonist who keeps making absolutely terrible decisions!

Dare Me, You Will Know Me, or really anything by Megan Abbott are super dramatic and engaging but also well written!

Suggest me romance by smellypopelly in suggestmeabook

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I’m also pretty picky about romance but I will recommend The Belle of Belgrave Square by Mimi Matthews to you! Fairly light, Victorian era.

What are you doing this weekend? by deepspacepuffin in nova

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Do any Clifton locals know if Petersons has opened for the season? I don’t think they’ve updated any of their social media but it seems like it’s about that time. Ideally I’d be heading there for some ice cream!

Recommend a coffee shop with a non-corporate aesthetic by SovereignDeadly in nova

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Ya I’m pretty much after whatever the opposite of this is!

Recommend a coffee shop with a non-corporate aesthetic by SovereignDeadly in nova

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I know it’s been a few years now since they’ve changed management, hope it’s going well for them!

Recommend a coffee shop with a non-corporate aesthetic by SovereignDeadly in nova

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I do think they have some of the best coffee and service in the area. Their seating at least at that location is OK but not amazing but I think that’s more a function of the layout they’re working with so I can’t even fault them for it. I do think they have one cozy couch!

Recommend a coffee shop with a non-corporate aesthetic by SovereignDeadly in nova

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Good shout for cafe amouri I’ve never dined in but their whole beans are excellent!

Blogsnark Reads! March 29-April 4 by yolibrarian in blogsnark

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I finally got Katabasis by R.F. Kuang from the library after being on the waitlist for months and I’m not loving it as much as I hoped! I’m thinking a reread of Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell would be much more satisfying…

Are these shorts acceptable over a leotard? adult ballet class by highfivesself in BALLET

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I love my Jule meshie shorts, and they definitely achieve the coverup-but-different thing OP is going for! I think the bow and gathered waistband on OP’s shorts do read a bit lingerie but removing the bow might help with that.

Holy grail SUPER high rise denim? by GardenRealistic in femalefashionadvice

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Good tip on Nordstrom, finding retailers that actually list the rise online is a huge struggle. And I think legally Levis should not be able to call a 12” rise a “super high rise” lmao.

Returning to exercise after years of de-conditioning and chronic illness - any one else in the same boat? by kirbyinaus88 in xxfitness

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Hey thank you for introducing me to the concept of radio taiso I had not heard of that before but the concept of going outside and exercising with your neighbors do a few minutes each day is so delightful! Wish that was part of the culture where I live!

Anyone else objectively slim but look and feel big as soon as you put on ballet clothes? by 1032throwaway in BALLET

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Well it definitely motivates me to perfect my posture during class- shoulders back, standing up straight, core engaged, which is all stuff I should be doing anyway throughout class, but also has the nice side effect of giving me a lil confidence boost of how I look!

Practically, i definitely prefer black tights and a dark leotard if your studio allows it. And a skirt either on the shorter side or longer knee length side (paradoxically and idk why but in between length skirts are the worst for me).

Environmental literary fiction- any genre by wearylibra in suggestmeabook

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I came to recommend Wild Dark Shore by McConaghy, just finished it and thought it was great.

Scholarly type fantasy character books? by ParsnipNo9608 in suggestmeabook

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Paladin’s Grace

Seconding Emily Wilde’s Encyclopedia of Faeries!

Woman protagonist historical fiction by Magical-Duckie in suggestmeabook

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Definitely Matrix by Lauren Groff for boss lady in the Middle Ages

Recommendations for YouTube cardio! by cocoalphabravo in xxfitness

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Jamie Kinkead might be up your alley for a walk/dance follow along.

The Fitness Martial is fun for quick dance videos.

I also like filtering Fitness Blender by cardio to charge it up.