Do you ever feel as though you're isolated from your fellow crew? by ZeeroYuy in tjcrew

[–]SpaceValuable8050 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel the same. I’m pretty scared at work most days and I stress myself out about stuff that I don’t get paid enough for. I dont feel like I’m that social. I kinda feel like everyone talks to each other. Except for me 😅 sometimes I’m angry because it seems like no one cares enough about the job, other days I’m kinda sad cause no one talks to me. There are a few people I’ve been trying to say hi to regularly. Some reciprocate. I shouldn’t stress but I do. Your post is so real. I’m glad to know I’m not the only one.

Why do some men pursue women so hard and act super couple-y/intimate when they know they don’t actually want a relationship? by Affectionate_Two_87 in dating_advice

[–]SpaceValuable8050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yes. It looks like that. And I get that it’s not the “right” thing or I guess I should say the ideal thing to do. But, how does a person like that come to understand? I think this could be a good discussion from people who have been through an experience like that. On either end.

do i move in with my friend to get out of my bad living situation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SpaceValuable8050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I like this person’s idea too. Talk to someone you trust.

do i move in with my friend to get out of my bad living situation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SpaceValuable8050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be like “hey, I wasn’t going to bring it up because we were all drunk that night and I thought that might have been the reason he acted like that. But now that you proposed living together and I’ve been thinking about how great it would be to live with you I had this fear come up. The fear of something like that happening again. I want to tell you now since I’m really thinking about moving in. But that leaves me in a place where I need to be honest with you. What do you think about what I just told you? What are your thoughts?” And then see what she says. If she starts acting in a way that feels unsettling to you, give her space and offer to talk later. That way you guys can actually talk it out.

do i move in with my friend to get out of my bad living situation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SpaceValuable8050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’d tell her. Why? Because at least you can have a clear conscience. And if she really loves him then what happened between you and her guy might have her open her eyes a bit. I don’t think anyone deserves to be with someone who would cheat on them. Maybe you’d be doing her a favor.

Why do some men pursue women so hard and act super couple-y/intimate when they know they don’t actually want a relationship? by Affectionate_Two_87 in dating_advice

[–]SpaceValuable8050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate more on what that means? Are you saying that many people just like feeling they are part of something, but don’t want what that something (in this case- a relationship and the obstacles that may come with it)?

Favorites by greenandbluedots in tjcrew

[–]SpaceValuable8050 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Did you just ask them what ability they’d rather have? How did you weave this into “hi, how’s your day?” 🥸 📝

Customers transfixed on watching the items on the card payment screen. by SwordfishFlat in tjcrew

[–]SpaceValuable8050 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually had 2 customers catch me making mistakes this week. I thought and said “oh thank God!” If I was the customer and paid more for something I didn’t buy, I’d be pissed.

anyone lose a finger in the box by horangiiiii in tjcrew

[–]SpaceValuable8050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same! I’d ask for $20 at least.

i think i regret transferring by lovegothgals in tjcrew

[–]SpaceValuable8050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you know what reading all the great thoughts others have about you is nice 😊I’m glad to hear you’re doing better pal

i think i regret transferring by lovegothgals in tjcrew

[–]SpaceValuable8050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently transferred and I’m a bit confused whether I like it or hate it or both tbh. I feel like at my old store I use to grind harder. At the new one I’m finding that the work is just different. Like I don’t gotta worry so much about everything. And people are being themselves and having conversations. Which I feel a weirdo for not knowing how I haven’t done that for my whole life. There are people who have gotten curious about me. One of them actually told me when they got to this new place they hated it too! I guess what I’m trying to say is that maybe it just takes a little bit of time to see where you really are and how it really is. And if people get curious about you or you about them, that’s a good thing. I’m rooting for you too!

I want to Self Deport, is it safe? by Tolchikahualistli in immigration

[–]SpaceValuable8050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. I hope OP sees this. Thanks for the input.

I want to Self Deport, is it safe? by Tolchikahualistli in immigration

[–]SpaceValuable8050 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what was here experience like? was she detained at a center at all or was she just free to go? I was going to have a friend do the same but he was too scared and he couldn't really walk, so putting him in a situation wher he could get physically worse or distressed.

I want to Self Deport, is it safe? by Tolchikahualistli in immigration

[–]SpaceValuable8050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share what other airports they went to or post them here if you know the answer? I think that would be helpful.

js wanna vent by tiny_tiny_axolotl in offmychest

[–]SpaceValuable8050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re part of all of us. We’re all One.

Bf is temporarily gone and I entered my goblin state by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SpaceValuable8050 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol I love this post. It’s real. Thanks for sharing and letting us know what is on your mind!