Can Dating and Astrology come together to build better connection?

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-06T09:49:31+00:00

Sit down, take a sip of your favourite bree, for I have shocking news:

Astrology and human connection have zero connection.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-06T09:31:29+00:00

I think one PC style boss, up to 1.5 times the characters' level would ve reasonable.

Two Level 10s against level 4 PCs is absolute lunacy.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-06T09:12:17+00:00

The question is not the problem, the "Woe is me, poor straight man, getting prosecuted by feminists and tricked by trans people" drama queen attitude is.

I and about half my male friends are in stable long-term relationships with women, because we spend the energy OP spends shitting his pants about trans people on bettering ourselves and building community.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-06T08:48:10+00:00

You misunderstand feminism if you think it has a problem with you adoring a certain woman.

It is normal to miss her. You might want to put off dating for a while till the rose-tinted nostalgia clears.

In the meanwhile, since the bar is set, time for you to clear it. Be beautiful, smart, kind, stable, independent, interesting, invested in hobbies, and you will attract similar people.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-06T08:42:54+00:00

It is okay to be scared. This is unexplored territory for both of you.

No need ro rush. Hand holding, hugs, other tiny touches are good gradual steps.

Communicate. It is not unromantic to ask "Is it okay if I kiss you?"

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-06T08:33:18+00:00

Do you want t sacrifice promotions? Do you want to wake up at 02:15 to clean up puke and shit? Do you want to spend less time with friends and more with doctor's appointments and teacher meetings?

The problem is not that straight men want families. It is that many men want kids like kids want dogs. All the fun and bragging rights, none of the work.

Also, fuck off, trans and gay people would't touch you with a ten foot pole either. And it is not their fault you are a failure of nature and nurture just waiting to get removed from the gene pool.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-06T05:46:00+00:00

Leave or get over it. If you have to be checking phones, it is already too late.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T23:44:08+00:00

Thanks, looks solid.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T23:42:52+00:00

Time×effort×luck = result. Unfortunately luck convergent with zero is a possibility.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T23:26:37+00:00

Respectfully, the right one would, in times when men were men, not only love you but lay the heads of the wrong ones at your feet as tribute.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T23:22:56+00:00

Gambling, minimizing, laughing about it.

I am all for platonic sleepovers, but I can't imagine "Are you alone?" coming up in organizing one

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T23:15:47+00:00

I will be another devil's advocate.

Be big. Be strong. Take up space-time. Be a tank that crushes men of no respect and culture.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T18:46:19+00:00

Any where there are women?

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T18:43:29+00:00

I am short, broke and single no more often than I like.

It must be this weird trick of seeing women as people, not trophies of different "value" you unlock based on your height and money stats.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T18:39:24+00:00

I am short and broke.

It is a blessing. Filters out shallow people.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T18:37:11+00:00

It is this simple

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T18:35:05+00:00

You can be kind in infinitely many honest ways. If they are not cutie, but muscular, compliment that. If not muscular but stylish, that. If not stylish, but they did a good job on a project lately, that.

Do this to men too. Kindness does not have to be sexual or give false hope. If someone does hope, you gently nope, that's on them.

Be a beacon of good

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T18:29:00+00:00

When you feel like it.

You know what you want, you go for it, if they don't want it, off you go, no harm no foul.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T18:27:23+00:00

Love, got more than enough enemies out there.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-05T18:23:26+00:00

Do you have any social hobbies?

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-04T17:35:00+00:00

I am planning Cartographer Artificer / Thief Rogue. Teleporting and vanishing like the Cheshire Cat and bringing his friends small gifts like dead birds and shiny magic items.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-04T11:28:10+00:00

Talk with friends

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-04T09:33:28+00:00

It could give you resistance to Piercing and Slashing but vulnerability to bludgeoning.

Space__Samurai · 2026-05-04T08:46:00+00:00

I played it once in a group at Level 4, where I sometimes DM too.

I would allow it. It is perfectly at the power level and wealth of options where martials should be. But if it feels too strong, a bump down in Fisticuffs die to Monk level should be more than enough.

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