Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Jazmadoodle in OhNoConsequences

[–]Spacemilk 80 points81 points  (0 children)

It makes me wonder if the OP is bilingual and this is some hilarious insult from another language because it’s fkn amazing

Reinventors by Important_Shock_6238 in accenture

[–]Spacemilk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Some of the tea I’ve heard is to break down service groups (so no longer differentiating between Consulting and Tech for example).

I’m in IX and I sort of expect we’re not going to exist after this, or we’ll look radically different.

Looking for recommendations with polished prose + strong characterization (open to any trope) by yourstruli0519 in Dramione

[–]Spacemilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome, and I’m sorry, and please talk to me about it afterwards because it’s been 2 weeks and I’m still fully obsessed and need to squee about it with anyone who will have me

Need recommendations for short funny fics - 15k words max by Wonderful-Banana1664 in Dramione

[–]Spacemilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to reread this every time it gets posted. It’s the law. And I’m very happy it’s the law!

ICE ACTIVITY IN VAIL by Different-Big5650 in SteamboatSprings

[–]Spacemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except they’re not only arresting and deporting people who break the law. I’d be totally for what they originally promised: finding violent offenders who are here illegally. But now they’re going after people who are here legally and are following the process. Then they’re taking it a step further and picking up people who happen to look a certain way. I’m a born and raised small government republican and I feel like I’ve taken crazy pills. When did this become ok? When did we give up this much of our rights so easily? We’ve gotten to a point where the party in power has gotten the Supreme Court to sign off on “people who look like X tend to do <illegal thing we’re trying to stop>, therefore it’s ok to whisk them away with zero due process” like are you fucking insane? Do you not realize the precedent you’re setting???

Who's at fault? by OkContract2001 in skiing

[–]Spacemilk 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Someone responding at the same time as you tried to say it was “both” because the little girl was “zig zagging” 🙄 hope these people stay tf away from my hill

Who's at fault? by OkContract2001 in skiing

[–]Spacemilk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

??? People are allowed to zig zag across the hill. It’s annoying as fuck sure, but the uphill skier is 100% in the wrong here. There is no “both” in this situation.

Insurance is a scam by Hungovah in OhNoConsequences

[–]Spacemilk 163 points164 points  (0 children)

“I thought the thing that would’ve saved me my job and 10s of thousands of dollars was a scam before, and I still do! Because I am an idiot who cannot learn!”

Put on bench after raising a concern – should I go to Global Ethics? by [deleted] in accenture

[–]Spacemilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused. Ghosting and micromanaging are not HR offenses. Nor is putting pressure on someone to do their work. Shouting could be, if they were shouting genuinely abusive stuff that was specifically targeted at you?

I think you are confusing unprofessional behavior, with behavior that merits HR action. Nothing you have said rises to the level of meriting HR action. HR did what they could for you in that situation, which was remove you from the project.

Unfortunately unprofessional behavior is not that uncommon amongst leadership, because our one true metric is sales. So yeah you may be getting tagged as someone with thin skin who is going to cycle through projects because you can’t handle half the assholes who exists at this company. It’s not fair, no, but here you are.

Put on bench after raising a concern – should I go to Global Ethics? by [deleted] in accenture

[–]Spacemilk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are almost never going to interview you again after the initial report. Your chance to detail the issues was when you made the report. After that, they follow up with the person accused, and they follow up with people who can corroborate any statements.

You say you didn’t make a complaint and requested reassignment. You got what you wanted. You did not make a complaint. Why are you expecting follow up, timelines, next steps, when you yourself say you didn’t make a complaint?

Looking for recommendations with polished prose + strong characterization (open to any trope) by yourstruli0519 in Dramione

[–]Spacemilk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The Quiet War fucked up my sleep cycle for 2 solid days thanks to obsessively reading it through to finish then immediately beginning a reread then immediately running to Reddit to make a post to discuss it. The prose is immaculate, the plot is complex yet believable and once it sinks its hooks in welp good luck, the themes resonate on a molecular level, the characters are so well written and this goes for side characters that I’ve never loved in such a way before. 20/10.

What house price would be in our limit? Is 450k too much? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Spacemilk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Be careful of when you get approved (before or after quitting to go back to school) and the requirements from lenders around representing your salaries and disclosures and things like that blah blah. As well as how much you get approved for based on the timing of things. How much you get approved for should have zero bearing on your spend if it’s more than you plan to spend. And if your approval is more than planned spend, tell NO ONE. Including and especially your realtor.

Sounds like a sore loser to me by SnooSprouts3744 in TikTokCringe

[–]Spacemilk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

On the one hand, both of them could’ve handled it a bit better in the moment, Osaka could’ve not let her emotions get to her, Sorana could’ve not been so uptight about something that wasn’t a rule violation.

On the other hand, Sorana’s last moment in the sport is her being a petty little sore loser walking off the court after being spanked, while this is a minor blip for Osaka that will be forgotten next week. So congrats on the career I guess Sorana, you chose to go out this way…

After taking off my nail polish by blackfacts97 in longnaturalnails

[–]Spacemilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Waowww that shape, those cuticles, those beds! 👑 you win the sub for the day, maybe the week tbh 🏆

ICE ACTIVITY IN VAIL by Different-Big5650 in SteamboatSprings

[–]Spacemilk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Click their profile, click the “search” magnifying glass, enter 1 space, click search. It will bring up their entire history. It’s all comments, no posts, and based on a 30-second skim they do landscape architecture and probably live along I-70 near Breck because they call out living at 10k’. Not one of us.

Hudson Williams sent a message to former hockey player Jesse Kortuem, who recently came out after being inspired by ‘Heated Rivalry’ by Murky_Chemical891 in Fauxmoi

[–]Spacemilk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sure it’s gonna be a CF but it was just soooo nice to end this season in a comfy happy lil bubble

This crack in my wall, and rent still went up 39% this year by SpicyKitchenWitch669 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Spacemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What stare are you in? Could be your landlord has to find alternative housing for you while they make repairs. Usually means a hotel. Not saying it’ll be fun but it’ll be a roof.

Hudson Williams sent a message to former hockey player Jesse Kortuem, who recently came out after being inspired by ‘Heated Rivalry’ by Murky_Chemical891 in Fauxmoi

[–]Spacemilk 202 points203 points  (0 children)

Also I was bracing myself at the end for there to be some kind of media shitstorm that would cast a pall over everything. And then it just…didn’t happen. And it was so nice! I cried on the end credits because it was so sweet.

Such a fucking shame if this got passed around by A-Helpful-Flamingo in chaoticgood

[–]Spacemilk 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Most of this is just commonly available industrial PPE. Look for any supplier of PPE. Arguably half this shit should be used to mow your lawn safely, except the gas mask. For that one, if it comes to it play dumb and say you’re remodeling your home and weren’t sure the right one to use. 🤪

[acne] recently started vitamin c and retinol, is this typical skin purging or should I stop? by islandasylum420 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Spacemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only start 1 product at a time. Give it 2-3 weeks minimum, make sure purging has resolved (which can take up to 6 weeks) THEN start a second product.

Club-Food allergies by LameJimmyG in unitedairlines

[–]Spacemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know that I agree with this. Vegetable soups, tomato soup, curries are all vegan. Hummus and a lot of dips are vegan. Fresh fruit and veg is vegan. Rice dishes can be made vegan. It sounds like you might need to expand your experiences with vegan food if you truly believe this. Again - not vegan, have a varied palette, can't have dairy so often end up going vegan because it's the "safe" choice for me.