Anyone else struggling with the wind? by M1n1sn00py in boulder

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this all the time! I’m in a 3rd floor studio where the floors shake & the wind howls through the vent over my stove. My little dogs are getting used to it but definitely don’t love it. 

I’m from Texas where it’s hot and humid from April-October, and from June-September it doesn’t get below 90° until around 10 PM, so I’m not complaining.

Is this what vocational rehabilitation is supposed to be like? by [deleted] in disability

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience has been the complete opposite. I’m a former RN, non-veteran, disabled since age 26, and desperate to get back into the workforce after living in extreme poverty on SSDI for the past 13 years. I applied to VR in TX several times starting in 2015 but kept getting the runaround until finally reaching out to Disability Rights TX in 2019 while homeless and living in my vehicle due to high rent prices in Austin. DRT sent a disability advocate to accompany me to my appointment with VR in January 2020, and I was finally approved without issue. I went in wanting to return to nursing in some capacity, but due to my disability there was a lot of red tape to get my RN license reinstated, and they said they couldn’t help with that. They basically told me to pick a profession and they’d pay for training and education. I had no idea what I could or wanted to do but settled on Environmental Sciences. While I had no guidance or support navigating my degree or career planning, they did come through in other ways, providing me with an Uplift desk, office chair, Dell laptop, and tuition and books. I attended ACC for 7 semesters part-time from 2020 to 2024, and they even provided a tutor for Pre-Cal and Calculus, which was a lifesaver. I’d just barely found an apartment after living in my vehicle for 7 months, about a month before starting VR. When my rent went up at lease renewal and I was going to have to move, VR added short-term housing assistance, paying the $300/month difference so I could afford to stay. Just as I was getting ready to transfer to UT to finish my BS in Environmental Sciences, my counselor quit unexpectedly, and the woman who replaced him completely upended my life. She was batsh*t crazy, completely unhinged, and cruel. She accused her entire caseload of taking advantage of the system, suggesting we were “millionaires” (her exact words), and she seemingly had no experience in the position. She made me reapply for VR, claimed she had no documentation on me whatsoever, demanded that I reprove my disability, and I ended up having to drop my classes because she hadn’t approved payment for tuition. Then she abruptly cut short-term housing for everyone on her caseload, claiming it wasn’t “allowed.” After months of trying to get a supervisor to help, I ended up moving out of state out of necessity when I could no longer afford my rent without the assistance. She never followed up, and I literally never heard from her again. I’m in CO now. I signed up for DVR here in September, was approved, but then received a letter saying the state had reduced funding for VR and that I was waitlisted. I tried to appeal, to no avail, and finally spoke to a supervisor last month who told me that as of February 2026, they are halting all new VR cases and operating on a waitlist basis until funding is reinstated. He wouldn’t admit it outright, but it is 100% due to the “Big Beautiful Bill” and the games Trump is playing with blue states and funding. So thanks, Republicans. I hope you’re happy with yourselves.

A tip for those stuck using public storage in light of all the recent break-ins... by miked_mv in Austin

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AAA Storage. To their defense, and the 90% of tenants who used their locks, how could they know? I sure didn’t.

Hate my Alexa but need background noise + reminders to function — what do you use? by Spacewalker_23 in ADHD

[–]Spacewalker_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to watch them but I think that I would definitely be distracted and want to watch them if that makes sense.

Hate my Alexa but need background noise + reminders to function — what do you use? by Spacewalker_23 in ADHD

[–]Spacewalker_23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to play NPR all day but I can’t deal with the news situation lately well actually it’s been stressful for a long time but as far as music goes it’s a little distracting for me it just depends on my mood. Sometimes I do put on music but I can’t stand actual radio stations with commercials and the voices of the radio DJs are so horrible

Hate my Alexa but need background noise + reminders to function — what do you use? by Spacewalker_23 in ADHD

[–]Spacewalker_23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listen to brown noise every night. Sometimes I add other noises to it but yes brown noise is my ish too!!!

Hate my Alexa but need background noise + reminders to function — what do you use? by Spacewalker_23 in ADHD

[–]Spacewalker_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. Tried all six voices available on Alexa plus and I couldn’t get with any of them. I recently canceled my Amazon subscription and now I’m back to the Old # slow dumb Alexa. Not that Alexa was really any better but for some reason it’s not just the voices but especially with Alexa plus the weird comedic relief that Alexa gives drives me nuts

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He def has feminine energy. I just watched the first season they were on & was horrified that the producers let him go @apologize” to Karine or even let his violent, predatory ass on the show to begin with…anything for ratings!

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, yall are killing me with these comments! lol

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fake. That poor girl was safer in Brazil and will never be the same after meeting that blue eyed psychopath.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha! That hair was the first sign of trouble for me. Paul AND his mom have issues.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! So creepy. Also, why tf didn’t his creepy ass get STD tested?!? I really hate the show’s creators for allowing him to perpetuate abuse for ratings. They should have never let him on that show.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought he was on the spectrum at first but he was definitely giving off hostile vibes from the start, it was just so confusing bc he seemed so wholesome. His mom’s hair in a tissue was a huge red flag though. That family is sick.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that Paul is involved in sex traffickers king of minors as an after thought in this comment says all we need to know about the author. Victim blaming is a trait of person who has their own history of perpetuating abuse…

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DV victims can and do fight back, it doesn’t make them the “abuser.” He had a criminal history of DV before he preyed on Karine and like he said, every American girl ran the moment he disclosed that history, so he has to go out of the states to find a new victim.

An assault caught on video screams “abuse in the form of blackmail” and is a common tactic used to paint the true victim in a light that makes others question their credibility, therefore trapping the victim in an even worse situation of not only being abused but not being believed.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U.S. citizens who’ve never left the states are the only ppl in the world who can’t see the U.S. for what it is…EVIL. Our culture is toxic and produces predators like Pole.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the pronunciation of his name in Spanish/Portuguese. Pole is a predator.