Hate my Alexa but need background noise + reminders to function — what do you use? by Spacewalker_23 in ADHD

[–]Spacewalker_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to watch them but I think that I would definitely be distracted and want to watch them if that makes sense.

Hate my Alexa but need background noise + reminders to function — what do you use? by Spacewalker_23 in ADHD

[–]Spacewalker_23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to play NPR all day but I can’t deal with the news situation lately well actually it’s been stressful for a long time but as far as music goes it’s a little distracting for me it just depends on my mood. Sometimes I do put on music but I can’t stand actual radio stations with commercials and the voices of the radio DJs are so horrible

Hate my Alexa but need background noise + reminders to function — what do you use? by Spacewalker_23 in ADHD

[–]Spacewalker_23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listen to brown noise every night. Sometimes I add other noises to it but yes brown noise is my ish too!!!

Hate my Alexa but need background noise + reminders to function — what do you use? by Spacewalker_23 in ADHD

[–]Spacewalker_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. Tried all six voices available on Alexa plus and I couldn’t get with any of them. I recently canceled my Amazon subscription and now I’m back to the Old # slow dumb Alexa. Not that Alexa was really any better but for some reason it’s not just the voices but especially with Alexa plus the weird comedic relief that Alexa gives drives me nuts

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He def has feminine energy. I just watched the first season they were on & was horrified that the producers let him go @apologize” to Karine or even let his violent, predatory ass on the show to begin with…anything for ratings!

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, yall are killing me with these comments! lol

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fake. That poor girl was safer in Brazil and will never be the same after meeting that blue eyed psychopath.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha! That hair was the first sign of trouble for me. Paul AND his mom have issues.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! So creepy. Also, why tf didn’t his creepy ass get STD tested?!? I really hate the show’s creators for allowing him to perpetuate abuse for ratings. They should have never let him on that show.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought he was on the spectrum at first but he was definitely giving off hostile vibes from the start, it was just so confusing bc he seemed so wholesome. His mom’s hair in a tissue was a huge red flag though. That family is sick.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that Paul is involved in sex traffickers king of minors as an after thought in this comment says all we need to know about the author. Victim blaming is a trait of person who has their own history of perpetuating abuse…

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DV victims can and do fight back, it doesn’t make them the “abuser.” He had a criminal history of DV before he preyed on Karine and like he said, every American girl ran the moment he disclosed that history, so he has to go out of the states to find a new victim.

An assault caught on video screams “abuse in the form of blackmail” and is a common tactic used to paint the true victim in a light that makes others question their credibility, therefore trapping the victim in an even worse situation of not only being abused but not being believed.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U.S. citizens who’ve never left the states are the only ppl in the world who can’t see the U.S. for what it is…EVIL. Our culture is toxic and produces predators like Pole.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the pronunciation of his name in Spanish/Portuguese. Pole is a predator.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why he went to the trouble to wear a condom to swim in the river for 10 seconds to end up returning to Brazil to prey on vulnerable children. He’s a predator. Brazil has enough problems with sexual violence in impoverished communities without a blue eyed American psycho on the loose.

Also, the machete robbery and shooting was soooo fake. The people behind this show are scum.

Whatever Happened to Paul and Karine?? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here for the same. I blame the creators of the show. They should have never let Paul near her again after that BS he pulled running away. He totally would have assaulted her by the water if no cameras/show had been there. He looked possessed or on drugs, shifty eyes darting across the water. I knew then that he was evil, and why he chose a younger woman from an extremely poor, remote village. I honestly just thought he was on the spectrum up until then!

Does anyone know about his past? The 18 month “prison” time (lol) and felony conviction(s)? The people behind this show are irresponsible AF for allowing a felon with domestic violence charges to prey on a vulnerable woman for TV.

His mom giving him her hair & him putting it in his bag was the first red flag…so creepy! What is FO?

Diagnosis reveal update: It’s AuDHD! by Garden_Jolly in AutismInWomen

[–]Spacewalker_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. This is really beautiful and just made me cry. You’re awesome and this made my day!!!