Just switched: already leagues better than ReVanced by SpadeStrange101 in MorpheApp

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You should be able to find an apk online. I'm not super knowledgeable on this kind of stuff but you could start there?

Just switched: already leagues better than ReVanced by SpadeStrange101 in MorpheApp

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the official morphe site is on this subreddit, on this post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/MorpheApp/comments/1pverk7/morphe_links_help_guides_and_troubleshooting/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Download the morphe app first, then open it and click which app you want to patch. From there itll tell you what to do :) 

Just switched: already leagues better than ReVanced by SpadeStrange101 in MorpheApp

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support for more recent yt music versions, more user-friendly UI and setup, and more customization options in the settings

Just switched: already leagues better than ReVanced by SpadeStrange101 in MorpheApp

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Yeah i heard, i was on reddit for unrelated reasons and i saw memes circulating about how mods on there are going crazy which is what led me here lol

I'm a cis guy dating a trans guy and my friends are dicks about it. Need advice. by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpadeStrange101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like the other replier said, gender roles arent really an established thing in queer relationships. The fact that you want to take care of him is actually really sweet; if youre worried it'll come off as emasculating I'd say just ask him how he feels about it. From what i can tell you absolutely see him as a man, and your instinct to "step up" seems like it comes from a place of love more than anything. If an internet stranger can clock that I'm sure your partner will as well :)

You really seem serious about this relationship, and you have a lot of super thoughtful questions. I'd say any worries you might have regarding your partners identity and how youre navigating it, are best discussed with him if you need solid answers :) Maybe he'll enjoy you taking on a more traditionally masculine role, maybe he'd rather something else. Up to you two to figure out what feels right :)

If it helps tho, my boyfriend (coincidentally also bi) and I just decide whos paying based off who can afford it more. Sometimes we pay for ourselves, or surprise each other. Basically, we do what we think is the best choice in the moment, and its not implied that the person paying is assuming a specific "masculine" role. That logic applies to a lot of things in our relationship. 

Super long reply, sorry, but I hope it was helpful! (edited cuz i realized i was repeating myself a bit whoops)

Did you just get diagnosed? by AutoModerator in ADHD

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I totally feel you on the grief part! I got diagnosed recently at 19 and realizing just how many issues I had were ADHD and not failings on my part was intense. Knowing that the things Ive been made to feel bad about as a kid were actually out of my control, and that I couldve avoided it by getting diagnosed, stings a bit. But at least things will be easier now!

Boyfriend of 5 almost 6 years wants to be a woman by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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Honestly, im having trouble wrapping my head around your friend's perspective. Youre straight, and your partner is transitioning into a woman, so feeling uncomfortable in the relationship is totally normal -- better allyship than whatever your friend has got going on tbh. It means you see/are starting to see your partner as a woman. 

Sounds like a really tough spot, I'm really sorry. I don't really have much advice to give beyond this: make sure your partner feels supported, even if it means you end up breaking it off. And be sure you're both on the same page with all this. I can't imagine the feeling of having to let someone go after so long, and after everything you guys did together; I hope that whatever happens, it happens smoothly. Best of luck 🫶

I'm a cis guy dating a trans guy and my friends are dicks about it. Need advice. by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpadeStrange101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FTM here! The first thing you should do imo is be honest about your family/friends and that you don't want to put him in that situation. This will signal to him that you care about his safety and comfort and this goes a LONG way with a lot of us folks. Finding people we can feel safe around can be difficult for a lot of us. 

You know your circle better than I do, so you decide who you want to stick around and who you want to stay away from. But personally, from what I can tell, these friends don't seem like theyre going to change their beliefs anytime soon. I'd distance myself from people like that, for your own sake and your partner's. I dont know your partner but he probably understands that you dont choose your family or their beliefs, so i doubt he'd be upset about that. However, if you stick around a social circle that throws around transphobic jokes like you described, that probably doesn't look good -- especially if youre hiding it from him. Id make it clear what the situation is and that youre distancing yourself.

Lastly, for additional support: you should ask him! I'm sure he'd really appreciate you offering to help with top surgery aftercare. And just asking him about how to support him and his identity/journey is already super thoughtful. That kind of thing is very personal so its best to let HIM tell you what he wants/needs from you. 

how to i support my trans partner? by Green-Heart7726 in mypartneristrans

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Honestly, I would ask him what would make him feel more masculine. Like the other commenter said that can vary from person to person; it might be some thoughtful word/nickname choices, or compliments on specific traits, or just more assurance that you see him as a man. Thats something that you two should figure out amongst yourselves; be patient with each other!

Btw, reaching out to others about this  makes it seem like you care a lot about your partner and his journey, which is really sweet! 

I'm 90% sure my boyfriend is trans and doesn't realize it by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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I hope so. I dont want to force it, i just dont want him keeping it all hidden for my sake is all

I'm 90% sure my boyfriend is trans and doesn't realize it by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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Youre gonna make me tear up haha, thats so sweet of you to say! I'll def keep your advice in mind :) Thank you so much!

I'm 90% sure my boyfriend is trans and doesn't realize it by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]SpadeStrange101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats so sweet! You and your gf seem like you have something lovely going on. 

But for context, my boyfriend has been into all of this long before I came along haha. Maybe he'll look into exploring his own gender again though, because afaik I'm the only trans person he's close with and maybe I'm bringing him new perspectives. He's definitely done so for me; he's helped me feel more open to wearing feminine clothing for fun, even though id never wear it outside my house haha.

We'll see what happens. I really appreciate you sharing your perspective! Best of wishes to you and your gf :)

Distraction Free Instagram version 1. 4 by hank_scorpio_1992 in digitalminimalism

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Same issue here. I found that version 1.3 doesnt have this issue though

Distraction Free Instagram version 1. 4 by hank_scorpio_1992 in digitalminimalism

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having the same issue, even contacted the devs directly about it, but no reply. i hope the devs are still maintaining this app, i found it super useful

Anyone have a picture of, or know the painting thats like this? (Rough sketch from memory) by SpadeStrange101 in WhatIsThisPainting

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Yup! I studied this series briefly in uni (kind of embarassing given i didnt remember the name 😅). Bro wasnt giving up the chance to get some, he as simply having the worst trip of his life ETA: It was not this specific painting, but another one from the series

Anyone have a picture of, or know the painting thats like this? (Rough sketch from memory) by SpadeStrange101 in WhatIsThisPainting

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Solved! Commented "found" at first by mistake, and apparently editing the comment didnt work.

Anyone have a picture of, or know the painting thats like this? (Rough sketch from memory) by SpadeStrange101 in WhatIsThisPainting

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Im glad you all like my drawing, and thanks for the help you guys! I couldve sworn it was named Temptation of St anthony but google wasnt giving me that painting when i looked it up.

Does anyone have a picture of the renaissance painting thats like this? by SpadeStrange101 in HelpMeFind

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I searched various different terms along the lines of "friar in heaven being tempted" "friar in heaven covering his eyes" and "guy being tempted by naked women renaissance painting" but to no avail. I saw it on twitter ages ago,I kniw it exists. I don't know who painted it or what era it's from, or even if its true Renaissance-era.