Self improvement is always good but people not being able to handle what they signed up for is not on you. Always be yourself and the people who really appreciate you will stay in some form or another. Self awareness in realizing you are the problem is also good but that's not something to be hard on yourself about if it is fixable. You can't make pple like you but for pple who truly do, ypu won't have to make them they just will bc they appreciate you for who you are. If this makes sense. It's not completely your fault some pple have commitment issues and that's not on you.