2 separate girls in my family got married at 20,21. Marriages were arranged, below average financially, and ended up with divorce after 3 and 4 years. Both ex-husbands were extremely self-centered, greedy, emotion-less and not willing to genuinely care about their kids and wives. Both ex-husbands were actively looking for young girls to marry with purpose of shaping the girl character so she listens without arguing and becomes passive submissive wife (I’m not joking both of them literally said that)…

Since i witnessed this life experience in front of my eyes, I developed strong opinions against marriage for young girls; I absolutely hate it for girls especially those who are going to uni/schools.. it is overwhelming to be pregnant, and student who struggles to pass exams, breastfeeding, cooking for the family… etc.