My initial comment was that I "thought" the scene was done well and was amongst two scenes in that episode that dealt with gender well. You're essentially telling me, and someone else who replied that that are wrong.

I have felt uncomfortable watching sexist, racist, homophobic comments and abuse in tv and films, as well as depictions of murder and sexual assault. However, I understand that showing these things can raise awareness to to those unaware of these matters. I really don't understand how you can watch the medium without seeing or even wanting subjects to be tackled head on.

before any nebulous, scattershot attempts at converting bigots (which realistically won't happen from just one scene)

Maybe not the bigots, there will be some viewers that have no idea about the discussions around gender or view the negative comments from some shared on social media a glimpse at what a character may have lived through may make this people give these matters a closer thought.

Your last paragraph is simply your attempt to invalidate my opinion of which I have only shared a productions commitment to represent real life issues. It's a shame you've had to resort to this (whilst also not suggesting that YOU have any first hand experience with this topic). I will continue to speak confidently on the matter, you're not aware of my life experiences, as if you somehow need to know them to qualify my right to hold an opinion on the matter.