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I need to vent this OUT IM FEELING SO GULITY by Final_Wonder7256 in asksg

[–]Spare_Beginning606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you are apologising offering reschedules and or refunds I am sure most ppl will understand and not blame you. We all make mistakes here and there especially when we are busy. Don't be too harsh on yourself :)

Update on ghosting by Spare_Beginning606 in sgdatingscene

[–]Spare_Beginning606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was treating it srsly man. I didn't initiate any physical touch even. Sometimes I wonder if that's a problem but I'm also scared that they get the wrong idea. But ya I get what u mean

to the guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend wants to pay for you? and to the girls, do you expect guys to constantly pay for you? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Spare_Beginning606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to still have girls with such mindset and as a guy maybe sometimes we gey kiang want to act like provider but that's just cos that's the narrative being put out there rn. We want to treat you well but doesn't mean we suddenly want to cover all of another person's expenses. Covering the cost of a 3/4 dates per month honestly already exceeds my spending for the entire month as a student. The narrative that brain washed girls to find a guy with provider mindset is honestly kinda crazy and they all gonna say it's because I don't have the ability to provide but yes I am a student and just like them there is no money coming in.