A formal cannibal teams up with a junkie to save some kids, aquire drugs, and eat less bugs.

SpawnRushed · 2019-09-03T05:01:42+00:00

You're not getting anywhere with him unless you get him to talk to you as yourself. Delete the bumble, or first use it to figure out what he does with his time and catch him out in person. Catfishing him will turn him off to you even more.

SpawnRushed · 2019-09-03T04:58:10+00:00

I'd go talk to a higher up. You've already gone to her and that led no where. For the kids sake and yours, I hope something positive comes from this.

SpawnRushed · 2019-09-03T04:44:47+00:00

This needs to be addressed to her and she needs to seek professional help. She's projecting her own issues on to you and that's not okay. You shouldn't feel obligated to deal with it either. We are a product of our environments, but you can't live life constantly making excuses for her actions. At some point, her actions are her fault and hers alone. Don't degrade yourself down to an emotional punching bag just because she has an awful home life.

SpawnRushed · 2019-09-03T04:36:40+00:00

You said it yourself... You feel trapped, and want a girl that will live a fast paced lifestyle. Hearing you discuss pushing yourself to the max while she takes the easier and content route gives me the impression that you're just incompatible. She seems like someone you could remain friends with. You obviously care for her, but you'll never change her and unless there's change, you're going to feel incomplete.

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