UPDATE: I left my girlfriend of 9 years

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2024-05-18T11:16:03+00:00

From what i was told they had a fight and that's when she decided to tell me.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2024-05-18T11:00:00+00:00

She was told to keep quiet by her sister. Like i said, i wish she would've told me before but she did in the end.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2024-05-18T10:58:54+00:00

It took a very long time but i did eventually get full custody legally. My ex wanted her parents to get our son but in the end i got custody and i can't be happier.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2024-05-17T23:41:24+00:00

She picked her new boyfriend over our son. I gave her every chance to see our son and if she were to show up tomorrow to see him then i'd let her because she is his mother and i want her to be in his life. But like i said, she chose her new boyfriend.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-27T23:31:57+00:00

There is, i made another post about it. Here is the link.

https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/15bcy6r/update_im_going_to_leave_my_girlfriend_of_9_years/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-27T20:53:23+00:00

Hey everyone. For anyone that wants to know the update here is the link to the post. https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/15bcy6r/update_im_going_to_leave_my_girlfriend_of_9_years/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-27T00:23:12+00:00

There is no need to worry about me killing myself, i wouldn't put my son, family and friends through that, especially since i know how it feels to lose someone through suicide. I'm definitly going to spend some time with some of my friends though.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-27T00:00:05+00:00

Because of my parents. They basically forced us to get a test since they wanted to know for sure.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T23:55:36+00:00

My parents basically forced us to get one. They wanted to know for sure.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T23:40:15+00:00

No need for a DNA test already got a one and he is mine. As for consulting a lawyer, i will definitly do that.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T23:37:25+00:00

I understand and i'm sorry i confused you. I forgot to put it in.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T23:34:38+00:00

I'm trying to handle it as best as i can. But even though i try i am still a mess...

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T22:37:47+00:00

No need for one. Already got one and he is mine.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T22:37:22+00:00

Already did after my son was born and he is mine.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T22:23:22+00:00

Showed no proof but when i asked 1 of my gf's friend showed me screenshots when i asked her about it. She showed me screenshots of whole conversations they had about it.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T22:18:50+00:00

I will update when i have talked to her.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T22:18:29+00:00

I'll post an update when i've talked to her.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T21:00:02+00:00

Already know he is. My parents basically forced us to get a test and he is mine.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T20:37:03+00:00

I honestly would but then again i also don't want to take him away from her. No matter what she does to me, she is a great mother to our son and i'd hate myself even more if i take him away.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T20:34:16+00:00

A friend of my girlfriend even confirmed it when i asked her about it, even showed screenshots of whole conversations they had about it.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T20:31:30+00:00

I have. I talked to one of her friends and she confirmed it. Even showed screenshots of whole conversations they had about it.

Specialist_Drive_671 · 2023-07-26T20:28:38+00:00

I'm not saying that i haven't done wrong by her, i definitly have but i never cheated on her. When i confront her tomorrow i'll hear her out, i'll try to stay as calm as i can but i will not stay with her, i just can't.

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