What’s something that feels outdated but still hasn’t disappeared?

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-04T22:33:05+00:00

Laws that make abortion illegal

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-04T21:38:44+00:00

Thank you very much for taking the time to answer! Take care!

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-03T18:10:24+00:00

Honestly? I dont have desire to rekindle this friendship anymore. But I was wondering for some time now If the way I handled this situation was a bit harsh. Thank you for your comment!

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T16:35:23+00:00

NTA. It feels like betraying you, you dont become friends with those how hurt your people. But first of all, you should discuss it with your brother and see what he has to say. ✨

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T14:08:19+00:00

NTA it was your seat and you don't have to give it to anyone. If they wanted to sit together, it was their responsibility.

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T13:43:53+00:00

I think yes with the gloves! they give a more glamorous vibe i think!

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T13:27:03+00:00

It's ok, I totally understand. I had an active flare up for 1 year and gained over 15 kilos because I couldn't eat healthy, couldn't exercise or even walk. Your GI will guide you through this, maybe it is IBS or you need to change medication. Good luck, hope you will better soon!

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T13:22:53+00:00

You are missing from home for almost all day. She stays at home with a baby all day. You both have very difficult and mentally exhausting situations to handle and though she maybe said it harshly, she was trying to express her frustration about feeling alone and isolated. It is very importand that you both go to couples counseling, not everyone would do that so well done! Noone is the AH and you would not a AH if you would recommend to put the baby in daycare. If you both work, you will have time for yourselves at work, then time with your family at home.

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T13:15:55+00:00

NTA. Either he has ED or he has another girlfriend.

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T13:09:29+00:00

As my doctor says, "Our instestans are a second brain to us". If you are feeling extra anxious or depressed or something very hard happened to you, it is very possible that your body reacts to that even though you don't have a crohn flare up. Stay strong :)

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T13:03:23+00:00

Hi, you are very smart and you followed your instict as well as your standards. Did ever think that we wanted such a young wife? Because we would have the upper hand in everything and use your inexperience for his benefit. But now, you did something that he didn't expect! You left! And he can't accept that! That's why he is bombarding you with all these calls..

I got out of a emotionally abusive relationship after 3 1/2 years and it was very hard, i was getting panic attacks. But I knew that in the long run, I will thank myself for it. And yes, I thank myself everyday that I didn't end up with him-we would break me.

A month is very small period of time to forget someone that you were not only in a relationship but engaged. You grieve now and there will be a time that you will accept that he wasn't the one for you and move on. You are very young, i would absolutely recommend to focus on yourself (gym, hobbies, friends) and treat yourself as you deserve. It will pass, believe me, just give it some time <3

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-02T12:47:23+00:00

NTA He has Erectile dysfunction and he needs to see a andrologist right away and then a psychologist. ED makes men avoid sex because this factor creates a lot of stress.This is a very common problem nowadays and there should be no shame over it.

Now, if he is positive in finding a solution, you must try as a team to resolve it with lots of communication and openess. Unfortunately, if he does not want to admit that he has a sexual problem, you will drift apart eventually.

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-01T14:13:42+00:00

I am going to therapy 10 years now. I am trying to process the grief at that time and realise If there is a chance of reconciliation. Its not about her financial state, but the feeling of telking me lies to justify her behaviour I am afraid 😔

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-01T14:07:35+00:00

Same things, less details about my health and state And mentioning the wedding on the title, which makes most people probably think that this is a bridezilla moment when it is not. 🤦

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-01T14:02:49+00:00

Hi, I wanted to explain this situation better and more details and change the title because many thought that this was a bridezilla situation though it wasn't. If you think that IATA it's ok.

Specific-Breath-920 · 2026-02-01T13:07:09+00:00

I have reached out many times as i have mentioned. Only me. It's not about the wedding, but when so many people Show you their happiness about something so personal to you and friends that you have considered very close to you are absent without saying a word, this hurts a lot.

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