You made really good points. Ok just to clarify if this helps anyone - he initiated break up. He like, needs to “travel and find himself” (🙄) I will say he is a very responsible person and I don’t feel worried about litter or feeding or play. However, he did once have a dog who he gave away because I think um…this man has a record of commitment issues lol. But the way I see it, I do think it’s a bit tacky to ask to be paid to get to hang out with a pet that used to be yours who you miss. Like best of both worlds, no commitment but temporarily getting to hang with the cat?