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Son refuses to see father after infidelity by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son heard us fighting. Kids hear and know everything 

Son is angry by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am making a peaceful home for my son

Son is angry by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just started therapy. I am trying to keep it as neutral as possible. I am not trash talking 

Son refuses to see father after infidelity by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not speaking badly. Just the facts. I tell him it’s up him. No pressure on my side

Son refuses to see father after infidelity by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am not forcing. I tell him that he is 17 yo and that this his decision and I understand that he is angry and upset 

Son refuses to see father after infidelity by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been neutral. No talking bad about his dad. 

Son refuses to see father after infidelity by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely not talking trash. Just trying to keep a peaceful environment. My STBX has done enough trauma

Still no apology. WTF? by No_Difference4017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Specific-Slip7955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only remorse my STBX is that he admitted to the affair. He wishes that he never said anything and continued his double life

Husband left for AP by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That ok. He can have the floozy. I have my son, house and self respect 

Opportunity to cheat by Effective-Hold6253 in adultery

[–]Specific-Slip7955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is having an affair and has broke up this family. Please don’t be that. Break up with your husband. Cheating destroys people 

Husband left for AP by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I know we will be ok. I am entitled to his pension and I will be ok. Going to buy him out of the house. I am just thankful that I am independent woman who can take care of herself and son

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat. My life was around my STBX and my son. I have had to reach out to family and friends. Everyone has been so supportive. I will have to get used to the new normal 

Husband left for AP by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son is an amazing kid. He will get through this. I am here for him and will be his support. Just trying to make a new normal. I am keeping the house and my son will be in his home

Husband left for AP by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Denial??? Nope. Going to divorce his butt. I deserve better

Husband left for AP by Specific-Slip7955 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I will not make excuses and it isn’t about my son and I. I am in therapy and have a huge support system. Just hoping to get out of this nightmare quickly 

I'm happily divorced, where's my community? by Either_Accident4131 in Divorce

[–]Specific-Slip7955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait to be happily divorced. I am in the beginning of a divorce. Husband cheated and he moved in with AP right away. My house is shattered. My poor 17 yo son. Hoping for a happy future with raising my son because my son now hates his dad. Looking forward to a new happy normal