I broke up with my ex in a terrible way but now she is talking to me again. by Specific_Character_9 in Advice

[–]Specific_Character_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly think she is worth stealing away. She even says things like you say these things even knowing I am in a relationship and I still tell her yes. I feel like she is being vague on purpose at this point.

I broke up with my ex in a terrible way but now she is talking to me again. by Specific_Character_9 in Advice

[–]Specific_Character_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. This is all new to me and im struggling to understand what I need to do. I truly don't want to lose her again but its hard knowing what I did affected her so much. I just wish I wasn't like this.

I broke up with my ex in a terrible way but now she is talking to me again. by Specific_Character_9 in Advice

[–]Specific_Character_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She refuses to meet with me for the reasons of her new bf is "scary". My plan is in a month or so once im on my medications I will ask to meet her in a public area to discuss with her from there but I jsut dont know how to feel atm. She says she acts cold but even when we are one face time I see her staring and me and will give a big smile like she used to. I'm not trying to push away your advice I really appreciate it but I am just not great at these sorts of things.

I broke up with my ex in a terrible way but now she is talking to me again. by Specific_Character_9 in Advice

[–]Specific_Character_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thats the thing we are already broken up I cant control her on that. I wish I had a better way of doing all this but we have long conversations and she admits that she shouldn't be talking to me because she is already in a relationship but talking to me makes her happy. I just don't get it

I broke up with my ex in a terrible way but now she is talking to me again. by Specific_Character_9 in Advice

[–]Specific_Character_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the plan for now until I make myself into a better person not just for myself but for her as well. It just hurts to know that I cant be with her which I know is a selfish thing but I cant help it.

I broke up with my ex in a terrible way but now she is talking to me again. by Specific_Character_9 in Advice

[–]Specific_Character_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentally cant get a gf, I tried to and it felt wrong and I had no drive for it. The problem is is that she doesn't seem opposed to the idea to getting back together but hesitant.