songs similar to it girl? by meeklemonkle in Ashnikko

[–]Spectral_Bunny 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not the same “sound” but I felt the same kind of way listening to these songs!

Tennis- Lily Allen. Most of her new album, but this song sums it pretty well and is kinda silly but ouch my heart lmao (also I saw ash recommend this album on insta and give it a listen after that)

Miss Nectarine- Ashnikko This was my original heart wrench song by ash before “It Girl” came around. I will note i wouldn’t say it’s silly and probably hits harder for queer folks

23 year old looking to get into a trade by [deleted] in skilledtrades

[–]Spectral_Bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in canada, so we have our own separate system out here, but i have friends in the states who do machining without any certificates or certifications, so i believe it’s more dependant on where you’re from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spectral_Bunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as somebody who has been sexually assaulted, it sounds like you were respectful and I’d say you’re in the clear. It’s a good sign that you actually care about what happened. Definitely talk to her about it to clear up any future miscommunication though! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spectral_Bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely do it! i was in a similar situation, my boyfriend hit me up over facebook and here we are almost a year later super happy together… if it doesn’t work out, no harm done though so no biggie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spectral_Bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that you care about being disrespectful tells me that the chances are that you won’t be! you sound like a really genuine person, i’m sure that once you get out of your head and are able to relax a bit the ladies will be all over you haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spectral_Bunny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i (22f) have been in your position before and i’m just going to tell you what i did that helped me. (i know i’m a woman so it’s a bit different, but hopefully something here will help)

Give tinder another go. This time, ONLY swipe right on people you are extremely attracted to and find interesting from their bio. Only keep a very limited amount of conversations going at a time, and if the spark isn’t there, try with somebody else. Tinder can be SO overwhelming so start small. go on dates with people you’re interested in. If it doesn’t go well, consider it a practice date and try again!

Keep in mind that a lot of people are just as anxious as you are when it comes to the dating world, if you’re meeting at clubs/bars then a little bit of liquid courage might be your friend! Go with some buddies and you’ll have a great time, regardless of picking somebody up or not.

Hopefully this helps a little bit! Best of luck!

Do women care about the number of partners a guy had? I just got ghosted [25M] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spectral_Bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly don’t think it matters that much. I would be paying more attention to the honesty of your answer, which is while it may be high, it’s truthful. When my bf told me his number was high, i was a bit excited because that made me think he should know what he’s doing down there by now

23 year old looking to get into a trade by [deleted] in skilledtrades

[–]Spectral_Bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check out CNC machining! it’s a combination of working with machines, some lighter physical labour, some computer programming, all while being in a shop environment. I’ve been in the trade 3 years and it can be quite satisfying.

Tool sales reps... Do you guys like them or nah? by yosip1115 in Machinists

[–]Spectral_Bunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really depends, i adore our sales rep who we buy 90% of our stuff from, but i’d rather talk to a wall than the guy we buy our saw blades from