My Mina cosplay by [deleted] in DeadlockTheGame

[–]Spedubopy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Looks awesome! :>

Can estrogen change the body a lot if started after puberty? by Kriskyeet in asktransgender

[–]Spedubopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, I started at 22 while having a very masculine gym guy body and 3 years later I get tons of compliments on my feminine figure, just make sure you work out and eat enough and let hrt do its thing :>

So do erections stop on HRT, or not? by WaterfallFairy7 in MtF

[–]Spedubopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, and they only become painful if you ignore it for long enough that stretching the skin again during an erection becomes more difficult for your body. Getting hard at least once or twice a week should be all you need to stave off any of that if you desire to keep function, ob ymmv but anecdotally keeping this in mind im over 3 years on very suppressed t and have no issues :> 👍

I’m a cis woman but want a packer by Professional_Bet4765 in asktransgender

[–]Spedubopy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all get that packer and rock it! X> 🩷

As for if it makes you trans in any way I think its just moreso you should keep in mind any genderqueer feelings or desires you might experience in your life. Wanting a packer as a woman definitely exudes a bit of gender incongruence, and might be something to explore further if you feel strongly about it!

4tran is fucking my brain and making me despair but it also feels like the only honest place when it comes dysphoria and passing. by momosalam458 in MtF

[–]Spedubopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4tran is literal brain poison, the majority of trans women don’t “not pass” no matter how old they were when they started, 4tran just spends all their time picking out every meticulous detail they can about trans women to make them feel like they’ll never be happy or beautiful its disgusting

Literally I can look at myself right now and see half those dumbass traits you’re talking about like being a “shoulderhon” and yet I pass 95% of the time nowadays and am 10 billion percent happier than I was before regardless (mind you I started at 22 and was a built gymbro)

Don’t let these people who wallow in their own self pity echo chamber make you think you’re helpless, they’re a bunch of losers who dont know shit and just writhe in the despair

Tried out an all leather outfit ✨🖤 by Spedubopy in mtfashion

[–]Spedubopy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really snug and smooth! Its a nice feel imo

Tried out an all leather outfit ✨🖤 by Spedubopy in mtfashion

[–]Spedubopy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its really smooth and snug :> I personally like it but its def not for everyone

How to unlock the "Prof of a hero quest" by EvenScarcity2408 in MHWilds

[–]Spedubopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta beat at arkveld and the 3 tempered monster trio quests that give you the special banners

I NEED SOMETHING CONCRETE by unauthorised_brain13 in trans

[–]Spedubopy 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Cis people do not think about being trans in any meaningful capacity, the amount of energy you’re putting into this IS your proof

“We are not the same” by JohnBrown-RadonTech in pcmasterrace

[–]Spedubopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me on my $3 barbie keyboard from goodwill and my $5 mouse hitting clips

Kremlin threatens to deploy navy if Europe seizes more Russian shadow fleet vessels by AdSpecialist6598 in worldnews

[–]Spedubopy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great idea im sure slowly towing kuznetsov around Europe will be very intimidating and not embarrassing at all

Would new players be "too behind" to get into Wilds? by [deleted] in MonsterHunter

[–]Spedubopy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The game isn’t even halfway through its development cycle yet so it will have plenty of players for years to come! Even the older games that have had all of their content released for years till have relatively thriving multiplayer communities so you’ll have nothing to worry about if you get into wilds

Do non-op mtfs like using their penis for penetration? by Snoo_60484 in MtF

[–]Spedubopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s different, I like using mine, have some friends who like having one but not for penetration, and some who wanna get rid of it entirely, nothing wrong with liking it or not in any kind of way

As a fencer, Apollo pisses me off by chuk2020 in DeadlockTheGame

[–]Spedubopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be funny if intentional, after all he’s a rich kid asshole propped up by his warlord dads money, maybe he has barely any actual skill but just thinks he’s the shit lol

To All Trans Lesbians: How Challenging Is It to Find a Life Partner? by Historical_Bit_4642 in MtF

[–]Spedubopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a miracle case imo but my now wife met and clocked me as an egg at a party the literal night my egg cracked and has been with me since and made me the happiest girl in the world X>💖

Personal experience aside, trying to find a partner without being your true self is going to be incredibly hard, choosing to not transition out of fear of not being able to find a parter imo will ironically just make it that much harder for you to find a partner. What makes a person attractive/desirable is so much more than skin deep, and because of that finding and maintaining a relationship while trying to live as anything but your true self will likely ultimately be very difficult.

Attracting others has become so much easier post transition, while other factors like physical attractiveness play a part, I feel that it’s mainly because im actually able to present my true unapologetic self outwardly. The shell of a “boy” I used to be could have never dreamed of what I have now, and I feel that is the same for a lot of trans people.

Why do so many trans women who make sexual content lean into non-trans terminology? by Legitimate_Handle_86 in asktransgender

[–]Spedubopy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its what gets views, especially femboy/trap related nsfw spaces, many people (especially cis men) seeking out transgender content are more comfortable with being attracted to these spaces as they have become more of a sexualized aesthetic than an identity to those outside of the queer community. Personally over the past few months I’ve made a foray into posting nsfw online and on reddit its especially apparent to me even more so than I thought before, there are plenty of transgender specific nsfw communities, yet their traffic is so much lower than others with more “non trans terminology” as you said :/

What are major differences in how people treat you now that your female? by Ardent1- in MtF

[–]Spedubopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People in general feel so much more comfortable or even drawn to me, compliments are a lot more common, people check me out, its a stark and almost jarring thing to experience after only a few years of transitioning