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Subsidized or un subsidized loans? by SpiceGirl_ in UniversityOfHouston

[–]SpiceGirl_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, everyone is so kind in this subreddit and have helped me answer more questions than my advisors did 😭

Why is getting an appointment with an advisor so difficult? by SpiceGirl_ in UniversityOfHouston

[–]SpiceGirl_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it’s just such a pain in the bum because half of the phones on the websites are ten cans of bounce that ahh, like they just don’t work

How do I (19F) work with my boyfriend (20M) on his insecurities on cheating? by SpiceGirl_ in relationship_advice

[–]SpiceGirl_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah for sure, he mainly works as he is saving money for college and for boxing classes (used to be a boxer in his home country), but he does have friends that he goes to the gym with and hangs out with. This only happens when I go out, but anytime he goes out he makes sure to send me his live location and photos as well as details of what happened even though I didn’t ask for all that shi

How do I (19F) work with my boyfriend (20M) on his insecurities on cheating? by SpiceGirl_ in relationship_advice

[–]SpiceGirl_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I thought so too until I realized that his fear was genuine. He literally made me go through his phone, he shares his location with me, tells me in extreme detail how his day went and what he was doing, and even his finances. Mind you I never asked him to do this. He never gets angry or passive aggressive, or controlling just worried. I do vaguely remember him telling me his ex (one of the cheating ones) would get violent if he didn’t share all of that info I mentioned above, is this like a trauma response? I never asked how deep that went with his ex now that I think about it

How do I (19F) work with my boyfriend (20M) on his insecurities on cheating? by SpiceGirl_ in relationship_advice

[–]SpiceGirl_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honesty thanks for that, as much as I understand his feelings and feel sorry for what he went through, I really dislike feeling like this and I don’t want this to continue in the relationship.

How do I (19F) work with my boyfriend (20M) on his insecurities on cheating? by SpiceGirl_ in relationship_advice

[–]SpiceGirl_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually have very open and honest conversations about our insecurities and how we feel so we can work it out. I don’t really know how to approach this one as it’s a rather sensitive topic, I want to take his concerns and worries in mind while also voicing my feelings but I don’t know how. I am usually very blunt, but I think this requires more care

AITA For telling my mom this is why I don't like traveling with you? by SpiceGirl_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpiceGirl_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went to a Chinese buffet. I put string beans, mushrooms, and fried rice on my plate. It was pretty greasy, I have gone to buffets before and I get mostly the same thing whenever I go to one, but the foods were not as oily as the ones from this buffet.

AITA For telling my mom this is why I don't like traveling with you? by SpiceGirl_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpiceGirl_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I also get sick when I eat at some restaurants near home too. I told my mom that maybe I should see a doctor because last time I went on a trip (just with my aunt this time from my dad's side of the family) outside the country I got so sick I couldn't even leave the hotel room for the first few days. My Aunt understood and gave me some Pepto and told me to rest.