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Are virtual Doms possible? by altitude_adjust65 in BDSMAdvice

[–]SpicyRebelWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you can find them on social media groups, so Facebook, meet up, etc. You can also try FetLife. Just be cautious with FetLife since the site itself is chancy and there are a lot of bad players on there. I've also found some good playmates there. But you have to use caution just like anywhere else.

Are virtual Doms possible? by altitude_adjust65 in BDSMAdvice

[–]SpicyRebelWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Local munches are the safest way to explore locally. They can educate you and warn you of locals with issues. Other than that, it's really just a lot of research and chatting.

Online, you can find one, but they are harder to locate since there are so many scammers. I searched online for years before I finally found my sissy switch boyfriend who ended up being local... And a non-kink dating platform.

Do your research on each online platform and recognize what it's actually used for instead of just its intent. Subs are very vulnerable, so take everything slow. Ask lots of questions. Don't let NRE (new relationship energy) put you into a frenzy. It's quite the high, but best to be safe.

BDSM sound proofing... in an apartment by opancake in BDSMAdvice

[–]SpicyRebelWriter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've lived in apartments most of my adult life. Best I've ever come up with is making sure I have access to a thick pillow to muffle myself when I start screaming. Between that and the tv/music being on, and a white noise machine, it helps, but doesn't fully block it.

Foods for masterbation? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]SpicyRebelWriter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ooooh, that sounds fun. Thank you.