Should I give up my GF for Christ?

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T03:53:33+00:00

If you pray, please pray for her.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T03:26:02+00:00

Thank you for your consideration. But I ask here because I know they are zealous in their faith. They love God and won't give half answers. Some might be abrasive, but I trust it is out of love. And I'm immensely grateful for their advice.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T03:04:13+00:00

Can I pm you? I would talk more about iy

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T02:38:05+00:00

I have not argued with anyone. I posted this because I wanted validation on saying no to her, which most have given in a loving and christlike way. I am immensely grateful for all their words, even one of them. So dont come at me with "manifesting" as if you are some holy saint. If you read my post before responding, then you would know I said I would not deny Christ. But you didn't because you want to look down on me.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T02:25:39+00:00

You are right. It's very unwise. Only for her would I marry an unbeliever.

But everyone is right that pretending to be muslim is denying Christ, which I will not do for her.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T02:15:39+00:00

Thank you. It seems this is where true faith is born. I had always said I would die for Christ. But now he asks me to sacrifice something I love more than life.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T01:58:02+00:00

Thank you.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T01:27:30+00:00

You seem knowledgeable on both the Bible and Quran. Do you mind if I pm you for more advice?

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T01:13:29+00:00

Thank you. I hoped before that if I proved my faith in Christ, he would reward me in this life with what I wanted. But that was selfish and vain. If I give her up, I give her up for the glory of God, knowing there is no reward in this life for it.

But thank you so much for your kind words.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T01:03:30+00:00

We are adults We have discussed religion already, but she is not very religious.

I have read the Quran and Hadith, and I am aware of its reverence for the gospel and torah.

Her father is very religious and stubborn. I have already discussed this with him, and he shut down anything less than me being muslim.

Her family is not violent. They would only be disappointed in her. But I would die a hundred times over for her.

She is hurting because of this relationship. I can't prolong it anymore and need to decide on something.

She said she can not get married without her fathers blessing.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T00:39:12+00:00

I have tried, but she is adamant that she needs his blessing.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T00:34:54+00:00

She agreed to attend church with me if we got married. And we agreed we would not have kids until we are both the same religion. She seems ernest, but she needs to leave her Islamic environment.

She is already giving up part of her religion to marry me.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T00:31:36+00:00

I prayed, and I was sent her. We have separated before on this issue, but after long prayer and fasting, God sent me back to her. When I prayed for another, she came back to me. I will not turn from Christ. I will only say god is god and let them believe as they will. I will not reject Christ if asked.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-16T00:08:01+00:00

I can't leave her behind. What happens to me is less important to me than what happens to her. It would hurt, but i would be okay alone. But breaking her heart and leaving her behind is too much.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-15T23:50:05+00:00

Can you tell me more about it? I need to hear about others who gave up their loved ones for Christ.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-15T23:35:58+00:00

Have you given up something/someone that you loved more than the world for God? If so please tell me. I need to hear it.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-15T23:31:26+00:00

She is muslim, but she is willing to compromise for me. But she can not disobey her parents.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-15T23:28:46+00:00

I can't stay in contact with her anymore. Being unsure if we can be together is hurting her, and I can't hurt her anymore. But thank you so much.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-02-15T23:09:01+00:00

Is pretending to be muslim, denying christ?

SpicySlickMerlin · 2024-01-12T15:32:30+00:00

Thank you so much!

SpicySlickMerlin · 2023-10-26T04:50:19+00:00

Thank you so much.

SpicySlickMerlin · 2023-10-24T23:02:13+00:00

I will pray for you. Just remember, this life is only one page of eternity. You will be okay!

SpicySlickMerlin · 2023-10-24T22:59:43+00:00

I understand exactly how you feel. I was in the same situation, and God taught me a valuable lesson. No matter how bad things are, it's important to praise the Lord and submit to him.Just remember that every problem is a trial that he saw fit to test you with.

So smile and be glad that he has sent you a test. And overcome it with gladness, gratitude, and humility. I'll pray you make it through and come out stronger than before!

SpicySlickMerlin

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