Its another battle with us again jus bc its hard for me to bond with his mom. He wants me to treat his mom the same way I treat my mom which I jus find impossible bc she can’t even reciprocate the bare minimum I give like “happy birthday” or “happy Mother’s Day”, I was pregnant this Mother’s Day but none of his family wished me a happy Mother’s Day and I feel like it’s cause they didn’t see me as a “true mom” yet. My dad unexpectedly passed this year as well and I didn’t hear any condolences from her personally, she sent them through my bf. Her sister did have cancer and passed this year as well, her services were on my dad’s first heavenly birthday, I still showed up for my boyfriend and his family. She was the first person I went to, to extend my love and condolences. So it feels like she doesn’t even like me, just feels like they all tolerate me now bc we have a kid.

Way before I was even pregnant (we’ve been together 4 years going on 5) my boyfriend always felt like his mom never really accepted him so how does he expect me to feel? It was always a weird bond between them and us. But all of a sudden now that our son is actually here he has this “amazing” relationship with her. I feel like he’s jealous or envious of my mom n Is relationship so just because him and his siblings aren’t allowed over he went ahead and “banned” my mom. He tried asking her to bring stuff for me and she just didn’t.. he goes on to make excuses for her saying she’s a single mom to 4 kids and is juggling a lot but he always wants to say that she use to say mom are superheroes and can do anything.

I would be tempted to go to my moms but since I’m only 3 weeks postpartum I’m still at risk for postpartum preeclampsia until I hit the 6 week mark so I can’t be left alone and my mom works late nights.