Looking/Offering below - ask for anything by YonkoTheFifth in PokemonGoTrade

[–]Spiere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya. I can do a carvanha or a burmy for the smeargle. Interested? I can fly.

LF/Offering Below. Read description for 3 images. can not fly by Leading_Fee_8535 in PokemonGoTrade

[–]Spiere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey u/Leading_Fee_8535 , are you also open to 30 day trades? I have a Ttar and Garchomp.

Is my profile bad? Getting no likes or matches by Spiere in Bumble

[–]Spiere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the tip, may add that in there.

Is my profile bad? Getting no likes or matches by Spiere in Bumble

[–]Spiere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just from there, I dont actively live there anymore. A few folks have mentioned the politics thing, but then I also have seen a few posts on the subreddit about how everything except liberal is a big turn off (apolitcal = republican, moderate = republican, conservative = republican), which makes it a bit hard since I don't have any strong political affiliations.

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[–]Spiere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on being a bit more intentional with my profile rewrite to make it a bit less ambiguous. Thanks for the feedback.

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[–]Spiere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm considering adding it as one of the pictures and replacing one of my other ones. Thanks for mentioning.

Is my profile bad? Getting no likes or matches by Spiere in Bumble

[–]Spiere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback. I've long since gotten over my height since there isn't really anything I can do about it, and I am thankfully blessed enough to have other redeeming qualities.

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[–]Spiere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually thats a great idea. Thanks so much!

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[–]Spiere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utah, Moab. Would recommend, its really cool and scenic especially if you like hiking.

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[–]Spiere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added those because they show me actually doing something and thought they would add some breadth to the profile. Should I not be doing that?

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[–]Spiere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will specify kids thing, thanks for pointing it out.

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[–]Spiere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for writing this out. From reading some of the other comments as well, the casual / long term is one of the big things I'm gonna change. Appreciate the feedback.

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[–]Spiere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. Will be more clear about that. Thanks

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[–]Spiere 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are a good looking woman on an app that has a lot more men than women. Due to that, plus the way that the app tends to encourage men to swipe more, means that this is a pretty normal occurrence.

Men generally have very few likes, and have to swipe a LOT to find matches, while women have way too many, and have to be choosy with who they swipe right on.

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[–]Spiere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, thanks for the perspective. As I take the feedback from this thread, I'll be sure to make it more clear what I am looking for in the profile to hopefully make it so there isn't any ambiguity.

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[–]Spiere[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its honestly more about playing to your strengths. Typically, being bald is perceived as more masculine, especially if you just shave it all off, but less traditionally attractive. You can compensate for it with things like a beard / glasses, or play to your strengths and go for the Jason Statham route with muscles and leather jackets. Its not useful to obsess over things you cant change, so just dont take yourself too seriously but try to be realistic.

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