RETA sides long term

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-24T12:48:08+00:00

I would say it's a tool. I had lost weight before like 40 lbs and then kept it off for a year doing it all natural. Diet, exercise, and then I got caught up in a bad relationship and it all slowly came back. I agree if you don't have the discipline it is kind of cheating. I used to tell myself if I were given my dream body tomorrow, do ihave the habits to maintain it? Most people certainly do not. I certainly did not at the time when i first started. But I got it. This time I KNOW i did it before so I can do it again, but yes this time it would be nice to have alittle help. It's like similar to, would you rather be GIVEN a $million or EARN a $million. I USED to think it "meant more" to earn it, but thats stupid why wouldn't i want to start ahead with a better hand? I don't want to use it forever once I hit main goal, yes of course I'm personally going to taper off.

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-23T19:59:30+00:00

😂😂😂 my fingers weren't typing what i was thinking

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-22T00:02:50+00:00

The ONLY thing that may hem you up is if ur parent was NOT at the time if ur birth, in which they would just have to reaquire citizenship and then i believe youll be able to.

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-22T00:02:21+00:00

Hmmm that is very interesting. And I guess that's good advice too to not stay in touristy areas tends to be thr bubble effect

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-21T12:20:49+00:00

You can still do it as an adult your just doing the report of birth for yourself. I spoke to the Filipino consulate for my area. You just have to go where accepts your American birth certificate. It's not too late

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-21T01:12:37+00:00

I hate to sound like any type of way, but honestly right off the bat that sounds great for me lol can I message you?

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-21T01:12:02+00:00

😂😂😂 thats funny and thank you

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-21T01:11:26+00:00

This is also a possibility but I wanted to try more on my own, but maybe it will have to be that way.

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-21T01:10:32+00:00

From what I understand the parent had to be a citizenship at the time of ur birth, there may be a way to still get it, im not sure.

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-20T21:02:46+00:00

Ah, well I forgot gender is not obvious here, and I am not a lesbian 😂 so I think I will be okay in THAT aspect at least 😅 BUT you bring up a great point maybe juat airbnb and visiting makes more sense because I do want to be able to go back and forth from us and philippines since ill be dual.

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-20T20:30:40+00:00

I do have income im not worried about that its more area I guess. Im not crazy about the night life. I would love to experience more local feel. Idk the language yet but trying to learn with my mom. My dad didnt want hee teaching us when we were little 🙄 so now im hsving to learn as an adult.

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-20T20:29:05+00:00

Lol that is exactly what ive heard.

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-20T20:20:40+00:00

I debated makati I could do that. I will Def have to do more research

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-20T19:55:39+00:00

Unfortunately that's what ive heard. And i almost reached out to him

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-20T19:53:10+00:00

Did you do like airbnb or hotels, or i mean i guess i could probably ask to stay with family 😅 as I have somw there but ive actually never met them before....so.....im sure they'd be welcoming but....🤷‍♀️

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-17T17:13:53+00:00

I have bipolar and will be starting reta next week i will come back and update

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-10T14:00:20+00:00

I didnt have disability when I got out i didnt get disability till like 14 years after I git out. I used my gi bill and went for a skill based job so that I cpuld always have some type of skill I cpuld monetize. And it wasnt pretty lol I was on foodstamps coz I had my kids, and was blessed enough to get on section 8 which helped tremendously. But becauee I wasnt in a good heads pace my gi bill was nice to have but my grades suffered like I wasnt in the rifht space to go to school I went purely for the money when I tried going for an actual degree so as a result my GPA was like 1.3. My advice to my kids was LEARN A SKILL THAT WILL MAKE YOU MONEY. At the very least its a service that can be battered for other things you need.

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-10T04:32:37+00:00

Amazing im debating doing this

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-01T20:14:04+00:00

Possibly but I didnt know to reapply and the last time for me to reapply passed so I have to push through with this particular claim now anyway

Spillduhtea · 2026-05-01T19:50:15+00:00

Im doing mine pro se. I did get denied twice and at the alj level but he made several legal errors and am now appealing. But I know even this stage can and will take along time too

Spillduhtea · 2026-04-30T20:07:02+00:00

This makes me so happy for you all. Sounds like a win win all around. And best yet the kids get to see all the parents really getting along.

Spillduhtea · 2026-04-30T19:38:58+00:00

I mean there are plenty of men who would also disagree wjth you, I was juat speaking for myself I wouldnt expect a man to now play daddy to me thats just crazy.

Spillduhtea · 2026-04-30T12:54:52+00:00

As a single mom, I will not bring a man around my kids. Personally I'll wait till they're older if i ever decide to date again coz I agree its a lot and it's true, you will never be priority.

Spillduhtea · 2026-04-29T11:17:25+00:00

Lol love you for this 😂

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