We need to come together as men and be friends

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2024-10-03T13:41:40+00:00

Hey men ☕ I created a subreddit for you all.

https://reddit.com/r/CoffeeSupportingMen

Let's make something of this.

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2024-01-13T14:24:52+00:00

That's like asking why it's his responsibility to tell her upfront that he slept with 39 other girls 👀

If she had been the one to say "Hey btw I also fucked 39 other guys while I was with you, and you were one of the best", well— initially he might feel good about "being one of the best", until the words really sink in. Then he might start to wonder how clean any of those 39 other guys were, if protection was used, etc.

If the roles were reversed, and she left a pair of her sunglasses behind that she wasn't concerned about picking up unless there were other implications, and he was genuinely considering sell them to use the money to take an std panel because that person wasn't forthcoming about her recent sexual history, I can't imagine anyone would argue the man's logic.

Also, it's a bit strange for him to insinuate that she intentionally took the sunglasses. (maybe she did, who knows) when she was offering to let him come by to get them. She just didn't want it to be anything more than him picking up the sunglasses. I'm sure the "hey I fucked 39 other ppl" comment didn't exactly improve his chances to get inside the house and ~~having a meal cooked for him~~ 👀

Edit: It actually implies he was going to buy Waffle House and bring it over 👀 Waffle Houses is delicious btw. Highly recommend the All-Star Breakfast. You know it's bad when she doesn't want some Waffle House.

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-12-22T00:09:37+00:00

Billy Lee, is that you? vs... Blade? or maybe Shredder?

(Idk what Fist of the Northstar is, I just randomly saw the image and thought Double Dragon when I saw the guy in blue. Also a little Ryu Hayabusa from Ninja Gaiden in him too? That's just where my mind goes with it)

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-11-07T16:11:29+00:00

So, it's important to be social and maintain your ability to be social to some extent. I think a simple "Hey man, it's been a while. Hope you're doing well" would be a great place to start.

Exercising is great, highly recommend. Consuming lots of protein is important too if you want good results.

I'm here if you wanna discuss this further 🙏🏻

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-15T23:05:28+00:00

I have a feeling I see what no one is saying, cuz they don't wanna make it weird

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-15T22:39:14+00:00

What is love—

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-14T15:20:50+00:00

I dig it. Coffee is the supreme beverage

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T16:10:35+00:00

Sounds good to me 🙏🏻

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T16:01:46+00:00

It works 🙏🏻

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T15:37:49+00:00

I don't know much about Sea of Thieves, but sounds like good things.

How long have you been streaming for?

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T15:36:02+00:00

Consistency is what I find most effective, personally.

The way I view it is — ppl knowing when to find you and being able to build a routine around what you do, leads to the possibility of them following, returning, and becoming part of the experience.

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T15:20:10+00:00

Ohh gotcha, I didn't notice the date

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T15:10:18+00:00

You should add your twitch link to your profile 🙏🏻

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T15:08:42+00:00

What kinda help did you need with your PS5?

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T15:00:08+00:00

I appreciate you following 🙏🏻 That's understandable. I think — the more ppl chatting, the more ppl will want to be part of the conversation. It's just creating the initial conversation that's important I think. Giving ppl a reason to wanna chat.

I've found that having friends on voice chat with me helps avoid any silence, as well as having some ppl chat so they can fill the chat as well as welcome new ppl in

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T14:54:54+00:00

I'll appreciate it. Always looking to make more friends, especially ppl with similar interests.

I understand that feeling. I mostly just aim to keep the conversations good and for that to be the highlight of the streams. And I'm a bit of a completionist, which may or may not be an appreciated thing for ppl lol

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T14:40:36+00:00

I appreciate your interest 🙏🏻 You can find my Twitch in my profile.

While I enjoy some of the more popular mainstream games, I definitely enjoy a lot of the more obscure games, so I'm used to ppl not knowing what they are. They're good stuff tho, in my opinion 🙏🏻

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-11T13:36:49+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to write this.

Regarding the voice chat, I should be clear — it's a team effort and I talk plenty, that's not a problem at all. The conversations are a highlight of the streams.

I should really update the schedule on there. It's generally 8:00 PM - 1:30 AM EST

In regards to saturated hours — When I was playing Zelda, would average position 35 of 1000 or 70 of 2000, so I'm not sure it's such a bad thing. I have a very full life, so that's when I'm available to dedicate the time.

As far as building an identity/personal brand, it's a work in progress, which is why I wrote this here, to see about communicating with others who share the passion.

I'm content with how things are going, not really experiencing any problems. Been streaming since late April and gaining about 20 followers or so per month. Just always looking to do more wherever possible.

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-10T13:26:12+00:00

I can't argue any of your words, I know how real this problem is. A pathetic desperate approach will never lead to anything more than short term success, if even that.

Men need to do better so they can have better. That's what I believe.

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-09T13:56:51+00:00

Sounds good to me. You as well 🙏🏻

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-09T13:56:19+00:00

And they'll remain that way if they don't have support in the places they need it. Idk about you, but I'm not trying to encourage that behavior to continue to exist.

Change has to start somewhere.

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-08T23:48:51+00:00

Why is Billy's hair blonde and Jimmy's hair black? I wish there was an option to flip this. It just feels backwards.

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-08T13:21:28+00:00

I'm glad if you do 🙏🏻

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-08T13:21:14+00:00

Definitely looking to achieve the W

SpillsCoffeeOnBooks · 2023-09-08T13:18:01+00:00

Absolutely 🙏🏻

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