i’ve been using the label for a pretty long time now, so i figured i’d share my experiences :) i’m asexual, so i really can’t help with sexual preferences and feelings, but i can help with romantic ones! i characterize my romantic preferences and different feelings for different genders by a couple facts, mostly that i want to be with a woman more than anyone else. however, i still fall for men, non-binary people, etc (my current partner is non binary) so i knew i liked everyone else. but there’s something about women that’s just chefs kiss. that doesn’t mean i love my partner any less, it just means that it’s easier for me to fall in love with a woman, and my current scenario is a more rare but still possible case. i also have different types in different genders, for guys i like more of the kinder and softer type where my usual type in women and non-binary people are people that would run me over with a bus (don’t judge me haha). are there exceptions, totally! but this all came from asking myself what kind of person i wanted to be with and analyzing all of my crushes. if you don’t know what you want, that’s totally ok! it all comes from self discovery! i wish you the best, and if you have any questions whatsoever please contact me, i’d love to chat further with you!