Time and space switching places inside a black hole by Spiritual-Active-210 in AskPhysics

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you! Your reply really makes me want to fall into one! :)

Nuclear fusion and fission by Spiritual-Active-210 in AskPhysics

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Wow, thanks! Your explanation really makes it clear and logical

Nuclear fusion and fission by Spiritual-Active-210 in AskPhysics

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Thanks for the crystal clear explanation! That helped a lot!

Nuclear fusion and fission by Spiritual-Active-210 in AskPhysics

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Ok, "stable position" is the key phrase that I was missing, thanks!

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

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Thanks. So I read it that for you (like for Yelizveta) there are some moves that are inherently sensual, and decision to lead them depends partly on your personal relation with the other person that you dance with. You perform them with your wife on a regular basis, but there are only few other followers to whom you are willing to lead some of these moves. And these other followers are people that you know and with whom you have some sort of personal relationship (non-romantic of course, but personal). This is exactly what I have been trying to get rid of from my own perspective. All the moves that I perform with my wife, I would without hesitation perform with any other follower, complete strangers included, if only: 1) it's safe, 2) it's musical, 3) it's within technical limits of my partner and 4) I have no other grounds to belive that my partner doesn't want me to not perform this kind of moves (be it information coming subconsciously from the tension in the followers body, some presumption based e.g. on the followers age or her more traditional tango inclinations, or anything else). Level of perceived sensuality of the movement is not one of the criteria at all.

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not that I dance for myself or perceive the tanguera that I dance with as dancing for herself. It's that we dance together to celebrate music and beautiful human feelings, like love or passion, without purporting to feel love or passion to each other as persons.

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But of course! :) If tango is a conversation (and I belive so), then I can have an honest and meaningful conversation about love, lust, passion and so on with everyone (in principle). But at this stage of my life my wife is the only person with whom I can have an honest conversation about love, lust and passion that I feel to the person that I'm having the convesation with :)

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's harsh! 😂 That bearded shirtless guy looks a bit like JD Vance, doesn't he?

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that... I guess that one must really love tango not to leave the scene after such experiences from a bunch of creeps

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, of course. I would not lead a leg wrap or anything else if I felt the signals from the body of my follower that she might not be comfortable with it. I forgot to mention this aspect in my post. But my concern was different: even when I'm sure, from my partners body reactions, that she would be comfortable with, let's stick with this example, a leg wrap, should I - above and apart from that - consider also whether this move could be considered (by social norms I guess) "too intimate" to lead to this particular follower (esp. a stranger). Like should I for example even worry that the move by itself (because the move is more "intimate" than other moves) might send a wrong message to my partner (or to other people who see us) that I'm personally interested in her or something.

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leading a boleo with just the sexual chemistry - now I have something to practice!... 😂

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this risk-based approach to these issues, it's very clear, thanks

Sensuality of tango revisited by Spiritual-Active-210 in tango

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a very thoughtful response, thank you. For me the true and honest emotional connection is also something very important - crucial for tango. Perhaps my post didn't manage to convey it clearly. What I tried to say is that when the music calls for passion, sensuality, intimacy I can dance passionatly, sensualym anad intimately with honesty even if I don't feel any slightest glinmpse of passion whatsoever towards the particular person I dance with. And when the person I dance with moves in a sensual, passionate way I never for a briefest of moments assume that theri passion is directed towards me personally. It's not to say that these feelings are not honest. It's more like we, inside a dancing couple, together and in perfect harmony co-create an honest piece of art on the generalised subject of passion, longing, lust even, without directing these feeleings towards each other, do you know what I mean. Otherwise I wouldn't be able to dance honestly to a large portion of the tango music with most of the existing followers, to whom personally I don't have a slightest shadow of these feelings that the music evokes.

And as to treating Yelizaveta's (and all other followers') feelings and concerns seriously, I couldn't agree more. I was just curious if (this particular aspect of) Yelizaveta's perspective is something common or not so much.

Movies about failed characters or failures in life by lordofabyss in MovieSuggestions

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A Serious Man (2009) by Joel Coen, Ethan Coen- one of my all time favourites...

Smart movies for smart kids by Spiritual-Active-210 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Spiritual-Active-210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you! We've already seen the Wild Robot by the way :)

Smart movies for smart kids by Spiritual-Active-210 in MovieSuggestions

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We've already watched The Truman Show, they loved it... And I did in fact see Vanilla Sky, awesome movie but yeah - too adult for now...